Are the HPD needs/dreams really impossible to fulfill?

Musician924 wrote:Hi Lones:

This girl deliberately called you just before and just after your birthday as provocation. They do like to torture and sew doubt in people (i.e your feeling curious and upset not knowing "was she thinking about me, or was she not on my birthday?"...in fact of course she was, but she prefers to torture you with it than tell you!!), they feel it gives them power over people, and to a certain extent it does for a while. People that love(d) them cling on to hope through not knowing the truth of what is in their heads in such instances.

Hi musician and all of you,

I just wanted to give you an update on this. May it be useful for another one's birthday

So as you remember, mi ex called me on the 28th, because she wanted me to check out how much would it cost to send her some of our "old" furniture. We had reached this agreement before she left, that when she found a place I would send her her part of the furniture. As you might also remember she "olimpically" ignored my birthday.

Well! On the 29th I've sent her an email with some updates on the furniture theme. Althogh I could just do not give a damn about it, I want to solve this as soon as possible...

You know what? Her urgency in solving this matter was so huge as to make her call me on the 28th, even after I asked her just to call me on urgent matters...Not!!! If it was so urgent she would already answered my last email. But she didn't! She ignored it as she pretended to ignore my birthday!.

So you were all were right. Her acting can be resumed by what musician said. She just emailed me on the 23rd and called me on the 28th to make me suffer by thinking she ignored my birthday. The job or the furniture were only her suitable excuses...

They really have a twisted and distorted way of acting. She left me for another guy. I behaved like a gentleman! But even so she doesn't miss a chance to harm me?!!

What she doesn't know is that these behaviors from her, are only helping me into see her true self and "Letting her go" for good.

Stay cool...

Lones[/b]