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HPD trying to get my attention

Postby cmj85 » Mon Oct 20, 2008 7:30 pm

What a whack job my ex-hpd is...

Today is my birthday and I have made no contact with me ex and took
down my myspace.

I got a text message from her that said my son says HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

He is 5 and half months old...he cant even talk :?

I didnt even respond....she left me high and dry and she texts me that??

Trying to get my attention...how pathetic...using my son who cant even talk. WOW!

whats next!
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Postby 411needed » Mon Oct 20, 2008 8:17 pm

Funny when you see it for what it really is? hahaha, I don't know if I would wonder whats next? It is more like what isn't next? hahaha

Happy Birthday, Today would be a good day to call a old friend up and just talk! Enjoy it!!
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Postby Panama » Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:38 pm

cmj85 This is the type of stuff that would bug the hell out of me. However, your starting to see her game, and your not taking the bait...good job!!!!

Have a great birthday! You have much to be thankful :)
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Postby cmj85 » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:21 pm

Its been a tough b day...but im going out to have a drink with a girl..

ya...kinda nervous about that...I never really had to be the one to carry the conversation my ex Hpd would never shut up.

its been only been five days of NO CONTACT...(which im proud off)

I have recieved two texts from her and I have not responded to anything.

I know if I respond im only playing into her hands. Its amazing how you seen there games once you isolate yourself from them.

Its weird once you isolate yourself from them...they do little things to see if you will take the bate.


Her last two text have been this:

1. just so you know I have unblocked your phone#
2. Your son wishes you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!(5 months old and doesnt talk)

what is that saying...Its says CONTACT ME PLEASE I NEED ATTENTION FROM YOU....ha ha. I look at everything from a different
angle now...MY love isn't blinding me.
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Postby walking » Tue Oct 21, 2008 1:38 am

Happy B.Day!!

Have a drink on me cmj85 :D
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Postby MyWave » Tue Oct 21, 2008 2:59 am

Happy Birthday Buddy!

Cheers to your continued healing :)
You feed the fire that burned us all
When you lied
To feel the pain that spurs you on
Black inside
~ Alice in Chains
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A bit late but...

Postby Musician924 » Tue Oct 21, 2008 12:42 pm

Happy Birthday CMJ.

The "Just so you know I have unblocked your number on my telephone" is soooo HPD....I almost peed myself laughing at that one, it cracked me up :lol:

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Postby donlimpio » Tue Oct 21, 2008 3:37 pm

Hahahah,

So true! That statement really says: I am giving you a token gesture that is actually void of meaning, but "seems" nice, and now YOU can follow up with REAL actions and true words.
Democracy is 3 wolves and a sheep deciding what's for dinner
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