The New Wizard of Oz-HPD

Hi, I'm new on this forum. Not that I have not read almost all of your posts. Thanks to all of you for educational input regards to HPD.
My story: I have been struggling with the issue similar as you all discribe, one example after the other about HPD. Married to what I think has HPD problem. He constantly lying about things that is not even important to anyone. Looking into pathological liar, I came upon this forum. After that, LORD BEHOLD , he is on every page and every sentence of this HPD forum!
O Yeaaa, he needed to be rescued from deep debts, need a lot of attentions that previous partners didn't gave him, his siblings never treated him right, he is ill and needed TLC. The list is too long. Thorough 7 years of marriage I strugle to understand him while he enjoyed living life of a spoiled child. He is most deceitful person I have ever met, dispite how good and kind I was to him.
Finally, 3 monts ago, while I was still in the hospital after surgery, he is making plans for get away calling his so called female friends ( never told them, what happened to me ). Bottom line; he just didn't want to help me.
That kind of hit the light in my brain. For a change he needed to give attention, instead get it. And WOW!!! he will not have any of such unjust treatments. No way! I think I seen big lightning struck his head and thoughts start flashing; Whaa...ra.bout ME???
Now. getting to the point of: THE NEW WIZARD of OZ? Don't HPD"s lack of heart, courage and brain ?
I do apologize to HPD sufferers who are on this forum, because it seems they do posses this three human qualities, or else they wouldn't be participating and trying to help themselves.
Wating for some respond to this mess.

Olivia,

I know that he has hurt you a lot but I believe that his parents should take some blame too. I mean, they spoiled him, and that is bad for how a child grows-up to become an adult. Typically, a spoiled child will grow-into an adult that demands everything to go his/her own way, and one who's world revolves around themselves.

His behaviour while you were in hospital is the ultimate in lack of dignity. That behaviour should symbolise to you that he only cares about himself, and nothing more. Why are you still with him if he causes you so much anger?

Kevin