HPD like to be Christian ?

Please excuse my poor English!

I come from P.R.China.
My hpd 'friend' is a Christian.
She is 26~28 years old.

She had a fan club of men ( 1x or 2x ? ) in her hometown until she came to BeiJing.
And then she became a Christian. ( likes so many HPD be refered in the forum. )

- Very very beautiful, but never understand others feeling deeply.
- She loves the God so much, cry in the Church while cheat with so many people constantly. Some male Christian will become 'victim' later.
- Do not want me go to Church with her.
- Borrow money from me and her monther (maybe others), promise, but never return.
- Be happy like a child, charming and sexy. after a minute, become a stranger who feel stay with me is guilty.
- Likes soap opera on TV.
- Don't know her age, I ask her but she lie.
- Using other people for her benefit and never return something. ( But may smile / beside / kiss / sleep with as return. My GOD! )
- Left the city for a new job ( some many new jobs), want to 'sleep with' me, but said do not know if it is love. Of course I can't make love with her.
- After 6 months, I knew she left for marry with her boyfriend, but it never happened.

She said she has not time for grief.
She said she do not want to look back, always hope the future.
New begin every years, every weeks, every day...

She always in CRISIS as no money for rent the room or worse... never accept my advise.

Why she like to be Christian? You know it is so rare in P.R.China.
I love God. I love God take care of her.
But why she never regret what she has done for others?
Will she do it again and again?
God forgive everyone everything?

HPD's are false people...they are probably false Christians too.........

they are incapable of being faithful to anything.

Agree with Wisernow. Nothing wrong with being a true Christian. But your friend's a false person with a false devotion to her 'faith'. She's probably trying to take advantage of Christianity, or of God, using her religion for her own benefit in some way. Funny.. that's the antithesis of Christianity.

Christiany is very hyppocrtic and unconsequential.
Its about a loving universe that saves the histronics from thinking of the consequences of their own childlish mistakes.
The christian antisexual and anti-pleasure morality
saves the histronics from introvertion.

What country is she from? Sounds silly, but is She Chinese? It makes a difference. Different societies/people around us and our thoughts and who we become as adults are shaped by many things.

"Christiany is very hyppocrtic and unconsequential." This is a huge stroke from a very broad brush. This is not the case during a balanced upbringing. Free thinking and balanced people learn and take with a grain of salt what is teach ed to them. We are human and some do better than others. Everyone is not able to be brainwashed. It's a blue print for a better society. Let yourself be in control.

Christiany is very hyppocrtic and unconsequential.

This isn't true. But some so-called Christians are hypocrites. And the religion isn't unconsequential (did you mean inconsequential)? I think it's longevity, it's breadth of acceptance and it's force for change and impact shows it's consequence.

The problem is not that she has become a Christian or even that she attends church, it is simply that she is going for so many of the wrong reasons. I was raised in an Irish Catholic family and attended church regularly until the age of about 16. I haven't really been since but let me tell you, having HPD and standing in a room full of people with no way to draw attention to yourself can be pretty torturous. I would find myself casting devious stares at friends or attractive girls while their parents weren't looking. From a social point of view, there's no better place for someone with HPD to feel bad about themselves, then magically be absolved and start flirting as soon as they get back to their pew.

If you can, have her go to church to perform some sort of confession by herself. Don't let her go when a huge crowd of people are available for use as supply (mass or some type of service). Going into a Catholic Church on your own can be quite a humbling experience and I don't even believe anymore. It let's/forces the HPD to reflect on themselves, a rare opportunity for some actual progress.

Mind you, this is not a surefire tactic and may produce no result at all depending on your friend's level of HPD. However, from a personal standpoint it was something that I feared and took me a long time to commit to. That being said, confessing everything I had done really did make it seem like I could start fresh and be less affected by my HPD this time around. For most HPD personalities, once things are less than perfect there is no reason to stop them from getting worse. ie: You can't answer the first question on a test and immediately decide to throw the whole thing away and/or cheat your way through. Quietly fessing up to some of the things I had done was a way to remember that next time I went to screw things up, I was ruining something brand new.