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thanks Maverick....


Yes Be Happy.......................

Maverick: I'm glad you 'see the light' so to speak. I wish you happiness as well. I think you've been posting around here helping others? Good!


Wisernow: Oh, okay. It looked like you might have meant it like that, but I wasn't sure. I've never dealt with sitautions nearly as bad as yours.... Have known it from secondhand exposure mostly (like right now, your stories). I still felt kind of stupid coming and saying all that I did with no direct exposure to such extreme situations. I was afraid someone would get annoyed.
I don't know much HPD individually, but I understand the fundamentals behind these people: They are self-centered and souless.
Please, don't blame yourself. This can happen to anyone. They're just pros at slow manipulation. Some of the smartest guys I know have been had by girls like the ones being discussed on this thread. You're not a fool or too-trusting.

I'm not special or smart or anything... I used to have a personality disorder, AvPD, and still have symptoms. With that thing, you should be very mistrustful towards others. You fear getting hurt, be it rejection, criticism, abandonment, used, or whatever because you can't really handle it. I was trying to say I often distrust in excess, to the point of sometimes getting worked up over what most would just blow off. I'm always ready to run away because I'm crazy, hahahaha. xD
This is also why I was having trouble understanding staying with such a horrible person. But now I see better.....
(Lol, off-topic thinking.... All that wasn't something you exactly drag into conversation, but it's a psych forum and the internet, so whatever. Hehehe)

Your welcome on the insight thing, I appreciate your own as well.