Listing of my HPD's personality~

I wanted to make a list of the things I experienced while having a relationship with my HPD to possibly help some of you know what comes with this disorder. This is by no means a diagnostic criteria but rather what I experienced. I will add to it as time goes by and and I remember stuff. Hope this will benefit those of you needing info~

1. HPD threatened suicide after leaving for a weekend to go and see relatives. While on her way back home is when i recieved this phone call.

2. Loves to show her cleavage and big boobs by wearing blouses or shirts that are extremely showing. Also wears shirts that say things to gain attention. For instance has one shirt that says " QUIT STARRING AT MY TATS" meaning tattoos but has the intent of look at my tits.

3. Drops the F BOMB all the time even when in front of her kids.

4. Looks at other women and no matter what always has something to say about them. Like " GOD DID YOU SEE HER? THEN STICKS HER FINGER TO HER MOUTH AND MAKES A BARFING SOUND", and the woman she's talking about can be totally drop dead gorgeous.

5. Switches price tags on merchandise in stores to obtain something at a lot lower price.

6. This one is especially troubling to me~ All of her friends are dishonest, cheaters, dramatizers. 90% of her friends cheat on there husbands or boyfriends. Will not and cannot have a friend that is above water and honest in most aspects of life. It's as if though she seeks out friends that she knows will be dishonest and then befriends them. Then wonders why I have such a problem with them. GEE DUHH I dont know !!

7. Said she was very much in love with me from the time I walked in the room and she laid eyes on me. Never even got to know me that much before she started saying this.

8. Has had constant family problems with her mom and dad and siblings. Dad was and alcoholic and a wife beater. Mom was there but really didnt take care of the kids in the sense that a normal parent would. Has a sister that lies like noone i've ever seen can tell a frickin lie. Tells lies to the point that that is all she ever does and actually believes them.

9. Used one of my credit cards one time to order stuff from FingerHut then claimed when I got the bill that she didnt know anything about it. Well I called FingerHut and had the lady describe to me what was bought, and I was like holy cripes, thats in my house, thats in my house, thats in my house. Yep caught her in that lie like nothing you can even imagine.

10. Moved 700 miles to my town to be with me when we first met and didnt tell me she had any dibilittating illnesses. Later she told me that the doctors diagnosed her with a life threatening disorder. Two months after being here was admitted into the hospital for throwing up, inability to walk, and total loss of muscle control. After every dang test known to mankind the doctors still could not come up with a diagnosis. I later found out by my own investigating and knowledge that I believe this to be what they call somatoform. Which goes along with HPD.

11. I have people come to me and tell me stuff she has said. Then when I ask her about it she says "I didnt say that". I know better to because how else would they know! The frickin boogey man didnt tell them, the frickin fairy godmother didnt tell them! The only way people would know this info is if I told them or she did and I know damn well it wasnt me. Does she really think i'm that dumb?? These HPD's are pathological liars themselves and will never and I mean never own up to anything.

12. Was extremely prudish in regards to sex or love making. In the two years that I was with her I saw her naked maybe a handful of times. When we made love she always had to cover up and never would let me see her. Its kinda funny, she was one of the most beautiful i've ever dated but could not show me her body.

13. She is extremely irresponsible in regards to paying her bills on time. Moved out of a house she was living in and didnt give the landlord notice or anything just bailed and didnt pay her rent. Has had utilities and things shut off for non payment.

So just out of curiosity have any of you experienced any of these things??

14. Her life is characterized by frequent crisis or drama. Constantly and I mean constantly manufactures drama, just to drum up something.

15. She has systematically alianated my friends and even some of my family to have me at the center of her existence.

16. Bought me a xmas gift two years ago and ordered it. So when it came in, instead of paying the last remaining amount on it and giving it to me as a gift, she got the original money down on it back.

This is my sister-in-law to a "T".
- The incredible lying

- The illness that onle comes up when she is trying to take the focus off something bad that she has done OR when she is trying to direct attention to herself instead of someone else

- Alienating friends and family (she now has my brother to herself, they see no family on his side or her side and she has no friends left)

- She can't pay bills and is terrible with money - lost her business and has put her family into an unbeliveable amount of debt just so she could "act" like they had money. Outward apperances mean everything, you always have to look like the perfect family when it couldn't be further from the truth.

- Always promising gifts to people, but usually doesn't come through (I left it at home by accident, sorry, but I'll get it to you soon!) My kids learned that one pretty quickly.

- Always some type of drama going on.

- I have to say that I think she has stayed faitful to my brother but we always hear how all of the guys are after her!

- Very provacative dresser - won't leave the house without looking her best

Seriously hits about 98% of what most people list about HPD's - that's what's so freaky!! Things got so bad with her, so odd, and we were catching her in so many lies - You just knew something was wrong and I started researching with Pathological liar, stumbled upon this, and it was like "HOLY COW - this is her!!" It helps because it explains a bit why she is like she is. Sad the prognosis is so grim...

17. Made a comment to me one time about her best friend, and I quote " she can be molded just clay".