I'd like to hear about feedback on this topic. I noticed a lot of stuff that matched up...
-after 6 mos the sex practically stopped
-minimal creativity... no foreplay, hated any position but missionary
-no kissing was preferred
-I get off, you get off... we are done
-robotic... lacking in passion
-hated pornography
-was quoted as saying "sex ruins everything"
-unattached after sex... couldn't wait to leave
-no clitoral stimulation desired... vaginal orgasm only
-oral sex? never... not even receiving was desired. private parts are dirty.
-claimed to have loved sex at 16... couldn't get enough.
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by attractedtoit » Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:08 pm
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by A little Wisernow » Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:39 pm
99% the same with my HPD..............
she only liked "sex" when there was a purpose..........
---keeping me from walking away forever..........
---getting a new guy hooked............
that sort of thing............
A tool of power and manipulation.........
she only liked "sex" when there was a purpose..........
---keeping me from walking away forever..........
---getting a new guy hooked............
that sort of thing............
A tool of power and manipulation.........
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by Sledge » Wed Mar 19, 2008 5:03 pm
Yep yep and yep~ I would say all but two of those match my HPD perfectly! I get off, you get off~ wow are they all like this? No foreplay??!! Especially the one about no oral sex, private parts are dirty~ totally my HPD in a nutshell!!
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by Roni » Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:34 pm
Well, I have to say, most of this does not fit my HPD. The part that does fit is not being interested in sex except in the beginning. He was inordinately interested in porn- I would even say addicted- and he had no sexual inhibitions.
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by radames » Thu Mar 20, 2008 1:32 am
So, would it be safe to assume that HPDs are asexual? In my opinion, they sound that way.
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by nicholas » Thu Mar 20, 2008 2:44 am
radames wrote:So, would it be safe to assume that HPDs are asexual? In my opinion, they sound that way.
No, it's incorrect to assume that.
HPDs are in fact the opposite, asexual means they have no desire to engage in any sort of sexual activity what so ever, no sex drive, no sex, that’s what being asexual is.
My HPD loved sex, she was a self confessed sex addict, and believe me it showed, there was a lot of sex, but I'm unique in the sense that I never committed to my HPD so she just wanted sex all the time, it never dried up, maybe because our relationship never got stagnant or boring, it was just one big drama.
I have a Bacherlors Degree in common sense
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by walking » Thu Mar 20, 2008 2:51 am
I would say it depends. My ex was extremely sexually active, for all that duration of our relationship. I never though any wrong about it. Since I was very active too, to me it seemed like “a perfect fit”. Now I am not active at all 
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by A little Wisernow » Fri Mar 21, 2008 1:09 am
Most HPD's are very sexual. but they use it like a tool to get and control guys. Once they have you they may get bored. the3n they may use sex to get other guys............
they're not all the same..........but what I described is common with HPD's.........and disastrous to their relationships............
they're not all the same..........but what I described is common with HPD's.........and disastrous to their relationships............
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by radames » Fri Mar 21, 2008 1:26 am
My assumption was mine to make and I accept it, regardless of its veracity as I am a person to whom its connotation doesn't apply.
So, their fathfulness to their partner in their sexual relations can be figuratively deemed "asexual" in that they desire to use sex to have power over their partner instead of engaging in it faithfully. Therefore, their faithfulness to equalized sexual expression is, in fact, "asexual." I love theories.
So, their fathfulness to their partner in their sexual relations can be figuratively deemed "asexual" in that they desire to use sex to have power over their partner instead of engaging in it faithfully. Therefore, their faithfulness to equalized sexual expression is, in fact, "asexual." I love theories.
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by ccumm36D » Fri Mar 21, 2008 2:06 am
The HPD uses sex as a weapon.
She wields it like a child wields her daddies gun after she found it hidden in the closet.
She experiences intimacy in a far different way than a healthy person. It's a fantastical thing for her. She loves the feeling of falling in love. But that level of intensity cannot be maintained. Familiarity breeds boredom.
She deems this a falling out of love. That must mean that this relationship wasn't meant to be. "The one" must still be out there!
...and the wheel goes 'round...
She wields it like a child wields her daddies gun after she found it hidden in the closet.
She experiences intimacy in a far different way than a healthy person. It's a fantastical thing for her. She loves the feeling of falling in love. But that level of intensity cannot be maintained. Familiarity breeds boredom.
She deems this a falling out of love. That must mean that this relationship wasn't meant to be. "The one" must still be out there!
...and the wheel goes 'round...
"It's not how hard you can hit. It's how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward".
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