What Do I Say to my Friends?!

Today will be my last day on this forum. It has been of great help.

I would

all the best to you "just me"

Take care my friend. I wish you well on your journey.

justme, I hope you find what you're looking for in this life.

ccumm36D wrote:The HPD will "seem" like she has a "heart and a mind" when you first meet her. This is exactly what she intends... It's still all about her.

justme wrote:The world would be a better place without Aislynn...

I came to this forum for advice, not to be accused of being subhuman.

Aislynn, "justme" wrote:

“The world would be a better place without Aislynn but it
would also be far less interesting“.

I do not see any sub-categorisation of your persona in her post, so chin up and as a few here already said, try look for professional help to solve “your catch-22”. This forum is a group of very, very nice people, and nobody wants anything but good for you.

I just want to put my two cents about your “male friends” as you called them in one of your posts. If they were real close friends of yours and in fact cared about you they would already have supported you in seeking a good counsellor.

What about your boyfriend, does he know about your disorder? Does he know about your male friends you getting your supply from? I am not quite positive if he does; otherwise he as well would be the first in line to grab your hand and take you to your therapist.

I still remember how my ex was looking for million cheap excuses not to break the bond with her “close male friends” when she was asked to do so (one of them was her former lover, so I could not understand if table were turned how my former lover could possibly become my best friend – but no surprise for cluster B having something on side is quite normal). I am not a therapist neither a psychologist but base on what I went through with my ex, I guess I know what you are dealing with. You can pm if do not want to post, but if you read this forum you may and will learn a lot.

Roni put it so right; it’s about taking responsibilities for our own actions, nothing else.

Don't feel bad aislynn.... it's just that some people were hurt so much so by people with HPD that they take it so hard on you too. Are your so called close friends all male?? If you really care about your boyfriend too, you should tell him what you have. This will make or break your realtionship with him. You have to remember... it's not always about you. Your boyfriend deserves to know too so that he can be able to understand you better. Had all the guys know about HPD during our relationship with our HPD partner, we could have helped our partner with their HPD.

I never said anything about anyone being sub-human...

evil incarnate perhaps ! But not sub-human.