ok, so answer this for me.

Now we've come to name calling How absurd!

I don't consider myself a "dickhead" but if you consider me a "dickhead" for wanting to get her away from a guy that shoves her mental issues in her face by telling her "go to your shrink and get your meds raised" or "What the ###$ is wrong with you, did you forget to take your meds" or "you need help" every time they get in a little argument! I must be a "dickhead" then! I DON'T WANT HER BACK! IN NO WAY DO I WANT ANYTHING MORE THAN TO BE HER FRIEND AND GET HER AWAY FROM SOMEONE THAT IS VERY UNHEALTHY FOR HER!!!!!

Like I would listen to anyones opinion that resorts to name calling!

I appreciate the opinions of the ones who actually tried to answer the question at hand, rather than try to diagnose ME. If I wanted to be diagnosed I would have said so. I'm pretty confident in how I feel about the situation. I just have questions about her and I'm trying to learn, so as to do the right thing. I am still not 100% confident that she is HPD(this only what I have come up with from searching and reading on line. I have not shared my opinion with anyone but the people on this forum) If anyone here thinks I'm a "dickhead" for asking to stick to the specifics, only because we all know where "threads" can lead Then I'm sorry for wasting your time and mine.

IS IT POSSIBLE I COULD JUST WANT TO HELP AND NOT BE MENTALLY UNSTABLE?!?!?!?

Now we've come to name calling How absurd!

I don't consider myself a "dickhead" but if you consider me a "dickhead" for wanting to get her away from a guy that shoves her mental issues in her face by telling her "go to your shrink and get your meds raised" or "What the ###$ is wrong with you, did you forget to take your meds" or "you need help" every time they get in a little argument! I must be a "dickhead" then! I DON'T WANT HER BACK! IN NO WAY DO I WANT ANYTHING MORE THAN TO BE HER FRIEND AND GET HER AWAY FROM SOMEONE THAT IS VERY UNHEALTHY FOR HER!!!!!

Like I would listen to anyones opinion that resorts to name calling!

I appreciate the opinions of the ones who actually tried to answer the question at hand, rather than try to diagnose ME. If I wanted to be diagnosed I would have said so. I'm pretty confident in how I feel about the situation. I just have questions about her and I'm trying to learn, so as to do the right thing. I am still not 100% confident that she is HPD(this only what I have come up with from searching and reading on line. I have not shared my opinion with anyone but the people on this forum) If anyone here thinks I'm a "dickhead" for asking to stick to the specifics, only because we all know where "threads" can lead Then I'm sorry for wasting your time and mine.

IS IT POSSIBLE I COULD JUST WANT TO HELP AND NOT BE MENTALLY UNSTABLE?!?!?!?

wise25663 wrote:

I'm a stubborn **ick

http://www.connectingsingles.com/free-d ... e25663.htm

and your point is?

Dan wrote:wise25663 wrote:

I'm a stubborn **ick

http://www.connectingsingles.com/free-d ... e25663.htm

You destroy women, Read your own profile. This HPD won and you can't take it. Sorry, take it all out on me or the other forums your crying on. I am done schooling you on how to get even with her, you deserve it. You don't see your own disfunction and that pisses me off.

Edit:

Please don't change your profile because of me. Let others disagree with me first.

I don't want to get even, but whatever makes you feel better What don't you understand about this? I have no reason to hide my intentions from you. If my intentions were to get even,that's what I would have asked.

How exactly does my profile state that I destroy woman? In short, all it states for me is that I love many different thing about women and if I could get everything that I mention in one package, I would finally be a very happy man. If I don't, I would rather die alone. How you read anything bad about what I said is beyond me.

Just don't change the profile for now. I hope others will tell me that I am wrong. They may feel the same way I do. Then you can tweak it and make it more attractive if I am correct.

I wont change a thing. I actually haven't been on that site for quite awhile, almost forgot about it. I was taken for a few months and didn't really have the need/want to go there. I would like your opinion though.

I will state that it kinda sucks that my original question is being ignored.

I hope you realize at this point that I say what I mean and mean what I say.

I was not being an ass the first time I answered the question. You need to be a bigger dickhead than the other guy. This doesn't save her from being manipulated by him. You become the larger manipulator. If she has HPD, you can't help her period, without harming her and yourself. I am just south of you, gotta go to bed, past midnight as you know.

I have read many articles and some disagree that there is no hope for people with HPD. They say that if the person wants to change that there is hope.