LittleHallucynation wrote:Histrionics and narcissists are phallic. Borderliners and psychopaths are babies.
An interesting way to break it down.
No idea what the truth is, but I'll throw out my personal break down. I think in terms of we people tend to latch on to 'life themes'. I mean deep seated beliefs that affect our perception, and these are just some examples, that can be combined in any combination -
People are trying to control me.
I must be in control.
I am always right.
I am most often wrong.
The world is a scary place.
Others are essentially evil.
Others are essentially good.
Life is not fair, and I can't be happy until it is.
Others must like me.
It's a weakness to care what others think.
Emotions are a weakness.
Life is a competition.
Everything has a sexual meaning behind it.
Who will take care of me?
I am a victim.
I am a lone wolf.
I must earn love.
I am entitled to special treatment.
Just a partial list, and no particular order. Any of these is normal enough, though when taken to extremes, can be self-defeating.