What is your career/education/romantic status?

I'm deeply fascinated by HPDs. The only ones I've encountered in real life work in lower tier jobs (e.g. waitress, bartender, hairdresser etc.). I have also found that they a) Are always involved with multiple romantic partners and b) Are incapable of monogamy. The other ones I know have these very dark sexual fantasies (e.g. sex with their married boss in the office while other people are outside of it etc.). My three questions for you is the following:
1) What is your educational background?
2) What is your career?
3) What is your romantic status? Do you think that your partner is ASPD or NPD? Or is your partner a spineless nice guy? What is the longest you have been completely 100% monogamous?

Educational background: $#%^ in school left in year 11 to do a diploma in child care worked with children for 4 years then studied a beauty course and now manage Napoleon a makeup store.

Romantic status: previous partners lasted 6 months to a year max when I would break up with them I would already be talking to someone new (I was also young) been with my current partner for 3 years but getting bit bored but can't seem to end things because I love him as a person and it would kill me to hurt his feelings or break his heart.

1. I'm currently waitress and hating it :/

2. I will be getting LVN degree by may *crosses fingers* & I already applied to a well recognized university in the city I live in for the fall semester. Psych major btw, I plan on going all the way to PhD or PsyD

3. I'm 24 and I'm in my first real relationship withbfy once best friend turned lover bf. We were best friends since 2013 and became serious last January.

I wouldn't say he's spineless but I do get away with alot with him because I pour my all into the relationship and vice versa. In the beginning he bowed down to my every need, but now I think he has caught on to my personality and knows when to say no( or not give me all the attention I need or acknowled it) and I kind of find that sexy. Its like I have to gain his attention more now which makes the relationship less boring. If that makes any sense.

Before him I was a wild child and always felt that guys were used strictly for current attention/sexual satifaction.

Btw I'm medication compliant, & have a therapist so that really helped me realize my true self. Which alot of us cluster Bs have a hard time of doing

1) What is your educational background?---- B.S. Degree
2) What is your career? ----I.T. Professional
3) What is your romantic status? Do you think that your partner is ASPD or NPD? Or is your partner a spineless nice guy? What is the longest you have been completely 100% monogamous?----married over 20 years, possibly NPD personality, but not an extreme amount as he has nothing that could have caused him to be that way in his back ground, definitely not spineless and called me out on my "issues", 15 years ago I was "talking" to someone I had never met, but we worked through that and have been good ever since.

I have never been diagnosed, nor do I feel I am full HPD as I am not a lot of what is in the description, but have had things that I know I am partly HPD or at least acted out the traits more so when I was younger. Had I not met my husband when I did, I may have had more of a life of suffering than what I did. Not all HPD women are the same. I don't dress flashy or care about fashion and I have never needed to. Even over 40, I look much younger and am still on the attractive side and I do not have to go looking for attention. I have never actually sought attention, but I just naturally received it, as a lot of HPDs have. I am very high functioning and independent and I excel in the work place. I still have things I work on, but I do not allow it to consume me.

I'm deeply fascinated by HPDs. The only ones I've encountered in real life work in lower tier jobs (e.g. waitress, bartender, hairdresser etc.). I have also found that they a) Are always involved with multiple romantic partners and b) Are incapable of monogamy. The other ones I know have these very dark sexual fantasies (e.g. sex with their married boss in the office while other people are outside of it etc.). My three questions for you is the following:
1) What is your educational background? I am a Double Major of English and Humanities, Bachelor of Arts, with two certificates. Near completion of a dual Master of Science. Sociology:Psych/HR based.
2) What is your career? Head of Corporate Recruitment
3) What is your romantic status? I have had this annoying relationship with a borderline, sociopath that is finally coming to an end after about 2.5 years, while I continually sleep with others and she doesn't. I'm gay, she's gay. I date a lot she doesn't.

Do you think that your partner is ASPD or NPD? Narcissistic- YES.

Or is your partner a spineless nice guy? N/A

What is the longest you have been completely 100% monogamous? I'm monogamous if my partner will commit. My most recent has been terrible and would not- refused- thank god because now I see how wrong a HPD and BPD
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