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by Beefheart » Sun Apr 01, 2007 4:07 pm
"Coercive" and and "needy" emotional states existing simultaniously.
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by ccumm36D » Sun Apr 01, 2007 9:29 pm
Can the HPD can be nice and thoughtful...?
Only to the extent that it wins them praise.
Time and I again I have experienced this first hand...an example...
My wife threw me a birthday party. She decorated the house, made the cake, invited friends, etc...
All during the party all she talked about was what a great job she had done putting all of this together. Basically, look at what I did! Aren't I grea for doing this? Sad.
It wasn't about me or my birthday, it was all about her. A fact that was not lost on the friends and family that came but didn't stay
long.
Only to the extent that it wins them praise.
Time and I again I have experienced this first hand...an example...
My wife threw me a birthday party. She decorated the house, made the cake, invited friends, etc...
All during the party all she talked about was what a great job she had done putting all of this together. Basically, look at what I did! Aren't I grea for doing this? Sad.
It wasn't about me or my birthday, it was all about her. A fact that was not lost on the friends and family that came but didn't stay
long.
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clear things up
by Wife of Beefheart » Wed Apr 04, 2007 12:57 am
Your wife did not share fictional things with her co-workers
Your wife left because her daughters were fearful of you and your increasing uncontrolled behavior - among lots of other controlling and behaviors exhibited by you.
Your wife left because her daughters were fearful of you and your increasing uncontrolled behavior - among lots of other controlling and behaviors exhibited by you.
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by wastedyouth » Wed Apr 04, 2007 2:30 pm
ccumm36D wrote:Can the HPD can be nice and thoughtful...?
Only to the extent that it wins them praise.
Time and I again I have experienced this first hand...an example...
My wife threw me a birthday party. She decorated the house, made the cake, invited friends, etc...
All during the party all she talked about was what a great job she had done putting all of this together. Basically, look at what I did! Aren't I grea for doing this? Sad.
It wasn't about me or my birthday, it was all about her. A fact that was not lost on the friends and family that came but didn't stay
long.
My experience was the same. "See what a nice and wonderful person I am? How could I be disordered is I did such a wonderful thing for you." Somehow the one event is supposed to make up for the absense of everything else. In the end of my relationship, I totally cut her off. Her last response was, "How would you like it if I treated you that way?" She just couldn't connect her actions with provoking the same feelings in me. It is quite sad.
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Re: clear things up
by digital.noface » Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:17 am
Jesus you remind me of my stepmother.Wife of Beefheart wrote:Your wife did not share fictional things with her co-workers
Your wife left because her daughters were fearful of you and your increasing uncontrolled behavior - among lots of other controlling and behaviors exhibited by you.
If it helps you, she wan't HPD
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