Like, I enjoy being a sex object and lusted after.
Sometimes I wish I could be a stripper, not even for the money, but to have men lusting after me.
I'm not a whore, I don't sleep around. But I am a chronic tease, and deeply enjoy being oggled.
I love creepy and strange perverted men. Those are my favorites, the sex deprived. I usually look for guys who look like they don't get laid often or are socially awkward with women. I love making men nervous, or have that period of "dumbness" they go through when they talk to a girl they're attracted to. I have a huge interest in male body language.
I always look at female celebs that I think are hot or sexually appealing, and try to imitate them in wardrobe or certain mannerisms.
I don't even desire to have an actual boyfriend, I just want a string of admirers. Though men don't really operate with that kind of devotion (unless they have stalkerish tendencies) so my fantasy is not realistic, but nice to daydream about.
Does anyone feel the same?
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Wanting to be objectified....
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Re: Wanting to be objectified....
by Siegfried » Wed Apr 13, 2016 6:27 pm
That's kinda hot.
Wotan id est furor.
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Re: Wanting to be objectified....
by xdude » Sat Apr 23, 2016 10:38 am
Hey Viva la Jay,
I think the idea of just being an object of everyone's desire is understandable, and if that's what you want for you, I think that's okay too. Being honest with ourselves (and others) about what we want is overall better than deluding ourselves.
By the way it's not really so different for say the stereotypical NPD male. Many want to be objects of desirability based on what they've accomplished, the position they hold, the money the have acquired, etc., so it's understandable.
The only caution? Not much of a caution. Whatever we chose it comes with trade-offs. The inability to resolve our conflicts over the trade-offs is what leaves people perpetually miserable. Of course we want it all, all the positives without the negatives, but that's delusional too
I think the idea of just being an object of everyone's desire is understandable, and if that's what you want for you, I think that's okay too. Being honest with ourselves (and others) about what we want is overall better than deluding ourselves.
By the way it's not really so different for say the stereotypical NPD male. Many want to be objects of desirability based on what they've accomplished, the position they hold, the money the have acquired, etc., so it's understandable.
The only caution? Not much of a caution. Whatever we chose it comes with trade-offs. The inability to resolve our conflicts over the trade-offs is what leaves people perpetually miserable. Of course we want it all, all the positives without the negatives, but that's delusional too
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Re: Wanting to be objectified....
by Ubinix800 » Thu Apr 28, 2016 8:12 am
If it is creepy and perverted men you are looking for, especially the types who'm objectify women, look no further than Pornhub commenters.
BDD and vulnerable narcissism/avpd traits.
(possible psychotic traits/undiagnosed, or trauma/anxiety(?)
(possible psychotic traits/undiagnosed, or trauma/anxiety(?)
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Re: Wanting to be objectified....
by Mr Prosocial » Fri Jun 24, 2016 10:03 pm
hi im John. im new on here. wanna talk?
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