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Re: HPDs as "victims"
by nowhereman » Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:21 am
Damon wrote:Do HPDs present themselves as victims?
If so, please give an example.
Thanks.
My ex does, quite frequently.
When I told her I wasn't going to tolerate her insults and walked off, she accused me of trying to control and manipulate her.
She told a mutual aquaintance that I had struck her. The mutual aquaintance was sympathetic to her but knew me well enough to know that it was unlikely for me to hit anyone, much less her. When he asked her for details she accused him of fallling into the cliche of "she had it coming." Finally she admitted that I had never hit her.
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by Xfactor » Wed Feb 14, 2007 10:52 pm
Yes they do... mine did in a number of different ways.
1. When I met her she played the abused victim of bad relationships role. Walked in on first husband cheating. Second husband was neglectful and abusive too. (Come to find out non of it was true.)
2. When I thru her out of my apartment she took every opportunity to embellish every little shove and make like she was being abused.
(Went home and played poor me to everyone and said she walked in on me cheating and I beat her up LOL!! Truth was she cheated on me and thats why I threw her out)
3. Her knee was bruised pretty good from falling down on the side walk when I threw her out. (She's claiming the cap is broken and all this other crap. Limping around when it suits her play for sympathy.)
Lots of poor me stuff!! It's lies lies and more lies.
1. When I met her she played the abused victim of bad relationships role. Walked in on first husband cheating. Second husband was neglectful and abusive too. (Come to find out non of it was true.)
2. When I thru her out of my apartment she took every opportunity to embellish every little shove and make like she was being abused.
(Went home and played poor me to everyone and said she walked in on me cheating and I beat her up LOL!! Truth was she cheated on me and thats why I threw her out)
3. Her knee was bruised pretty good from falling down on the side walk when I threw her out. (She's claiming the cap is broken and all this other crap. Limping around when it suits her play for sympathy.)
Lots of poor me stuff!! It's lies lies and more lies.
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