Age-gap relationships?

by **chickadee** » Tue Jan 30, 2007 3:27 am

I don't know the answer to your question, but I wanted to throw another possibility into the ring. Perhaps it's to mimic the parent-child relationship. The little I've read about HPD makes it sound like there is usually a disconnect or lack of a strong bond with her parent(s).

Just a thought...

That's interesting I had never thought of the parent child thing. You may have hit on something with that. There is a strong reoccuring pattern of older men with my HPD. Mine actually had a relationship with a guy in his mid 60's while she was 27!! However there was also a guy as young as 25 that I know of.

They seem to need a stable provider that becomes the primary source of supply for them. Both dollars, attention, appreciation, love , sex, etc... Then after a short spell set about meeting their other needs.

My girl had 4 of us going at one time last year... Amazing!

by **baz** » Tue Jan 30, 2007 11:09 pm

The parent-child thing is interesting.

I am the sam e age as my HPD, but she frequently mentioned (non-negative) ways in which I reminded her of her father. Also the father of her first child was significantly older.

by **Sarina5** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 12:05 am

I'm 31 and my boyfriend is 22 (so I'm 9 years older than him).
But I've got BPD, not HPD, so probably borderlines do this the other way round. :lol:

by **chickadee** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 3:59 am

Guest T, your shrink was right. Most women seem to have problems with the father-daughter relationship.

by **nowhereman** » Wed Feb 21, 2007 11:48 pm

My ex-gf, an HPD, has a husband a few years older than her but an obvious father figure. She has had 2 bf's who were over 15 years younger than her.

by **digital.noface** » Thu Feb 22, 2007 1:52 am

Hmm, interesting. My fiancee is 4 years older than I (she 25, I 21).

by **ccumm36D** » Sat Mar 17, 2007 10:39 pm

I met my wife and we moved in together when she was 27 and I was 19.

She left her second husband of 18 months. He was her high school crush. She always said he was such a huge disappointment.

Hell, he got off easy!

Age-gap relationships?

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