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Attention Please. You are entering the Histrionic Personality Disorder forum. Please read this carefully.
Given the unique propensities of those who are faced with the issues of HPD, topics at times may be uncomfortable for non HP readers. Discussions related to HPD behavior are permitted here, within the context of deeper understanding of the commonalties shared by members. Indulging or encouraging these urges is not what this forum is intended for.
Conversations here can be triggering for those who have suffered abuse from HPDs. .
Non HPD users are welcome to post here, But their questions Must have a respectful tone.
If you are a NON and have issues with an past relationship with an HPD person, it is suggested that you Post in a Relationship forum. Here is a link to that forum: relationship/
For those who have no respect for either this illness or for those who are living with it, please do not enter this forum. Discrimination of Personality Disorders is not tolerated on this site.
Moderators are present here to ensure that members treat each other with dignity and respect. If topics become overly graphic or drift from having a healthy perspective, moderators will intervene.
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Divorcing an HPD
by bobb2006 » Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:11 pm
Anybody else divorce an HPD? I have a daughter with this woman and I really fear for her. She's not quite 2 years old. I live in NJ.
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by PQ » Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:29 pm
My grandfather left his HPD a long time ago. She threatened to commit suicide and he came back. Don't fall for their silly games, understand?
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by bobb2006 » Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:44 pm
I fully understand. Drew a line in the sand a month ago and put all my ducks in a row- somehow, I just knew she would eventually cross it. Spiteful, self-centered, everybody else is wrong, I'm the problem!
She wants to go to a divorce mediator- I will not do that. No way- she's too good of an actress and I see what happened to my stepson's father.
What I do need is a lawyer that can see through the shallow personality, sociopathic lies and the spiteful behavior.
This woman treats the kids like they are a nuscience to her.
She wants to go to a divorce mediator- I will not do that. No way- she's too good of an actress and I see what happened to my stepson's father.
What I do need is a lawyer that can see through the shallow personality, sociopathic lies and the spiteful behavior.
This woman treats the kids like they are a nuscience to her.
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by PQ » Tue Dec 19, 2006 3:33 am
bobb2006 wrote:I fully understand. Drew a line in the sand a month ago and put all my ducks in a row- somehow, I just knew she would eventually cross it. Spiteful, self-centered, everybody else is wrong, I'm the problem!
She wants to go to a divorce mediator- I will not do that. No way- she's too good of an actress and I see what happened to my stepson's father.
What I do need is a lawyer that can see through the shallow personality, sociopathic lies and the spiteful behavior.
This woman treats the kids like they are a nuscience to her.
Audio record it through your pocket.
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by bobb2006 » Tue Dec 19, 2006 3:59 am
Hey, great idea. My dad noticed how she was with kids. His observation was she was terribly hard on this 8 year old boy- yelled at him all the time. Treated him like he was a nuscience. Guess it makes sense now- he was probably stealing the spotlight from her. Can't have that now, can we?
I just spoke to her 1st cousin- she happens to be a close friend of my sisters. She told me an interesting story.
When my wife was 7 years old and her sister was 6, apparently they were at some social/family affair. People were commenting on how lovely her sister's hair was. Bet you know what's coming, yep- sure enough. She butchered her hair to the point where the 6 year old sister had to get a crew cut.
Her cousin also told me about how her parents always, always fought. Their father was caught molesting girls around 7 to 15 years old. Got to wonder what went on- I feel so bad for my wife, but it's not my fault. I didn't do that and I don't deserve this.
I just spoke to her 1st cousin- she happens to be a close friend of my sisters. She told me an interesting story.
When my wife was 7 years old and her sister was 6, apparently they were at some social/family affair. People were commenting on how lovely her sister's hair was. Bet you know what's coming, yep- sure enough. She butchered her hair to the point where the 6 year old sister had to get a crew cut.
Her cousin also told me about how her parents always, always fought. Their father was caught molesting girls around 7 to 15 years old. Got to wonder what went on- I feel so bad for my wife, but it's not my fault. I didn't do that and I don't deserve this.
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by swedishmeat4avegetarian » Tue Dec 19, 2006 7:53 pm
Unresolved daddy issues? Massive tip-off there. Nice to see it in hindsight.
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