My ex-girlfriend used to go into graphic detail about our sex life with her friends. Sometimes it was okay, if it was an intimate setting. Even if her friends got embarrassed, she'd divulge more.
I gossip with my friends. I admit it. I've never told my friends some of the things that she told her friends. What upset me was some of the people she told weren't that close to either of us.
Last night I saw her at a party. She went into graphic detail about how her new boyfriend is "the bomb in bed." It was typical of her, with me sitting there. He may well be, I'm not saying that isn't the case. I just wished she had shown a little consideration for my feelings since I was there.
Is this a part of HPD? I know when she used to talk about our sex life, she made it sound much more exciting and wild than it was. She couldn't wait to get on the phone with her friends afterward. I wondered if it made her friends feel put down. She made it sound like she had it all and I knew she didn't. She talked more about sex than we had it.