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My experience with "Paris Hilton"

Postby Maniac10000 » Sun Sep 10, 2006 12:10 am

I've been dating a Paris Hilton type girl for the past couple years. They're overdramatic, hot/cold type, sexual, etc what you read about Histrionics. Personally as a Cluster A paranoid/schizo person, her type fits well with mines because I do not give a crap. I learned long ago on how to treat Narcissists and treating Histrionics is the same thing except different.

I ignore/avoid Narcissists but if I do interact with them at work or on a personal level, I am friendly but brief.

I do the same for Histrionics (Remember not all personality types can do this, only non-social personality types like mines can do this naturally.) I interact with them this way: unfriendly/neutral but brief.

The difference between the both of them is that the Narcissists wants to be praised and followed as if they were the God. Being neutral or disagreeable will put you in their warpath. So why be unfriendly or neutral with Histrionics? They get enough attention from many guys already, my girlfriend has a long list of "Nice guys" who I like to beat the crap out of (but of course I hold that back) that do her bidding in hopes of securing future sex or relationship. She also gets a thrill of mentioning them to me, of course because of my personality "disorder" I would say things totally offtopic or just weird stuff and she would freak out and go into a drama queen spaz as predicted. She says I'm a psycho considering the way Histrionics do things (See Paris Hilton for a good example vs a Bumbling weird scientist for a good example for my "disorder") I have no problem because I make her do things sexually and to pay for dinners as well. I do not play mind games to achieve this. I tell her what I want and she usually complies. She uses cry tactics or anger tactics to get things her way, a guy who is not detached emotionally will fail, but since I am detached emotionally I just shrug off what she says and she's usually back to normal very fast and extra sexual.

It's been fun with her, but she's beginning to bore me, I may dump her someday for someone a little more mature about life.
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Postby KontrollerX » Sun Sep 10, 2006 2:49 am

Well sounds like you've got things figured out pretty good. :)

Thanks for sharing with us though LOL. ;)
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Postby mylife » Sun Sep 10, 2006 5:44 am

LOL! That was like reading a comedy book! Really I enjoyed that. I cringe to think about the HPD's reaction if you dump here someday! Yikes if you think you got it good now, wait until you dump her!!! Then you will be sitting like a king.

I have a guy like that now that I "mess with". He tells me what to do and I do it. He tells me when and how and I do that too. And I try to get mad and have an attitude and he doesnt care!!! It just kills me so I go right back to being a "yes sir" girl. Come to think of it, your girlfriend sounds a lot like me! :?
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