I am puzzled by joe's complete lack of understanding why this situation is untenable for the woman he was seeing on the side. Joe, you're a selfish jerk who used and mentally abused two different women.
One of them is codependent enough to stay with you (hopefully you won't give her any diseases with the multiple partners you've had and will continue to have). The other one has gone a bit over the edge, but in these circumstances who can blame her? She may have a personality disorder, or she may just be crushed by what you did to her. A heart broken by betrayal will drive you to do things you would never imagine you'd consider--trust me.
I say you're the one with the personality disorder.... not because you cheated (that only means you are weak)... but because you expected results other than the obvious and are now bewildered by the response you're getting. People have feelings, joe... you stomped on this woman's (and your ex's). They aren't toys for you to play with.
I say it's karma you're dealing with.
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by PQ » Tue Oct 24, 2006 12:41 am
chickadee wrote:I am puzzled by joe's complete lack of understanding why this situation is untenable for the woman he was seeing on the side. Joe, you're a selfish jerk who used and mentally abused two different women.
One of them is codependent enough to stay with you (hopefully you won't give her any diseases with the multiple partners you've had and will continue to have). The other one has gone a bit over the edge, but in these circumstances who can blame her? She may have a personality disorder, or she may just be crushed by what you did to her. A heart broken by betrayal will drive you to do things you would never imagine you'd consider--trust me.
I say you're the one with the personality disorder.... not because you cheated (that only means you are weak)... but because you expected results other than the obvious and are now bewildered by the response you're getting. People have feelings, joe... you stomped on this woman's (and your ex's). They aren't toys for you to play with.
I say it's karma you're dealing with.
Interesting.
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