Get out there and be somebody baby!

by **Sarina5** » Sun Jul 30, 2006 2:23 pm

I've been diagnosed with BPD with histrionic traits and I'm doing very well in therapy and my life is getting back to "normal".
I've got a great and very supportive boyfriend who loves me very much the way I am and I'm moving in with him soon.
I love him very much and I could not ever even imagine having sex with somebody else. I just love him so much!

So my point of writing this is almost all PD's can get better with the right treatment and medication if they want to.
I don't need any attention from other guys anymore, just my boyfriend is enough.

I can understand many posters here feel bitter and hurt after their girlfriends behavior but it's time to move on. Go out and try to meet other women, not everybody have histrionic traits only a small minority. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get your life back to normal.

I think that some of the boyfriend's on here really felt that their HPD girlfiend was "the one", and they like going over and over the "relationship" in their minds, because it is a way of keeping the relationship alive.

It's a bit like when a spouse dies and the surviving partner gets angry with them. Its a way of still having some kind of emotional relationship with the missing person.

by **KontrollerX** » Mon Jul 31, 2006 4:25 am

Going over things repeatedly is also a symptom of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder which many HPD victims including myself have gone through.

by **ghost5of7** » Sat Oct 10, 2009 3:39 am

Typical. Its not a matter of feeling sorry for ourselves. Or at least myself. We're talking about trust issues, intimacy issues, anger issues because Histrionics play on all of those. They're adept at manipulating and psychological torture. For Histrionics its not about loving thwe man. For the man its very much about loving the woman. And women can ALWAYS find a willing man.

For me.. I saw PHOTOS of my Histrionic with other men. Often when having sex, they'l resurface. Or my feelings will interfere. In both cases, they result in impotence. Same with masturbation. How about dating? A NORMAL woman knows she can get free drinks, food, etc by pretending. How do you imagine a victim feels? Any woman interested becomes a victimizer, a predator in our eyes and we simply walk away.

I realize you people have no compassion so I'm not offended, but also, you should have a "but for the real world" counterpoints like mine interjected. Think about it.

Get out there and be somebody baby!

Get out there and be somebody baby!

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