If you were stranded on a desert island with one man...

What do you think would happen ? Would you end up flirting with him and backing off ? Would it be horrible ? What would you do to cause drama ?

I would develop an animal fan club

dkdk999 wrote:What do you think would happen ? Would you end up flirting with him and backing off ? Would it be horrible ? What would you do to cause drama ?

The man would be idealized since he represents survival and I would need him to help take care of me. He would be put on a pedestal.

He would be seduced by me guaranteed (and simply because he's a man and I'm the only woman on the island, LOL), the variable is how I would respond. If' he's attractive and good looking I would not fight the attraction. If he was somewhat gross, I would be conflicted. I tend to become attracted to men that are attracted to me, it's only a matter of time. If I was really disturbed by the conflict of my feelings I could become a little neurotic. I would have to start a fight just to create bad blood, and then his feelings towards me would wane.

After a while, there will be some discontentment with the relationship/scenario with the attractive guy. I will become disgusted/annoyed by him simply because of boredom or too much intimacy. I would push myself away from him, starting fights and likely running away in the end. I could see things becoming physically violent out of frustration since we'd be codependent on each other, and I would be unable to severe the relationship.

Yeah. Not good.

Even worse if the guy turned out to be a female psychiatrist...and you had no choice but to examine your earliest Mom-Daughter bonding moments...all of it under just one skinny coconut palm...

asking it to 'diagnosed' HPD would make it somehow...... not real answers.
If I were undiagnosed, didn't know about HPD, I wouldn't really think about seducing anyone.
Most of HPDs DO NOT admit that they are seductive, try to seduce men, and would freak out if someone points that out. Also... now that I am diagnosed, I use 'HPD' kind of as an excuse to behave in hedonistic immoral ways... So I wouldn't particularly deny having sex with whatever one man.


If you ask ANY Heterosexual man the same question, you are stranded with one woman, what are you gonna do, he is likely to say ' i will seduce her and have sex'
and does that mean they are all HPDs, cuz he said he will seduce her and have sex? No you wouldn't say so, because culturally, men are somehow seen as 'normal' even if he acts like a 'HPD'
but women are expected to be not so sexual, so you will call us 'hpds' to answer
yes we will f*ck him annd fall in love

If I was stranded on a desert island with Johnny Depp in his Jack Sparrow attire I would resist all attempts at rescue, hiding from passing ships and planes, live happily on coconuts and weave cool skirts from grass. If I knew in advance I was going to be stranded I would stock up on mascara and lip gloss,enough to last a life time.