Low functioning borderlines are borderlines who cannot hold down jobs or anything because of constant hospitalizations or things of that nature. High functioning borderlines see more relationship/familial problems and so on. I'm not saying functioning means craftiness or intelligence, which I've found is a common misconception.
What would a histrionic be like whose life is incredibly out of control because of their disorder? I don't want to hear about how the high functioning life is still out of control; I know that it is. What I mean is, what is the histrionic like who has built up such a reputation that they can't even build relationships to destroy? How is their life just as out of control as the low functioning borderline? (not said from a competitive stance, just for ease of comparison.)
A histrionic my therapist references off and on, is in her mid thirties and can't get anyone to make plans with her because whenever they go out she causes a scene in the middle of the store or wherever it is they may be. She's unpredictable and rarely comes to appointments. Is that a low functioning histrionic?
I'm not sure where I fall on the global scale of functioning. I have destroyed relationships, but I have relationships left. I am bored when there is no tension in the air, but I don't have temper tantrums often at all.