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Michael Jackson dies today

Postby crystalr0w3 » Fri Jun 26, 2009 3:04 am

I was saddened upon hearing the news today hat Michael Jackson is gone. I like MJ. I'm one of his fans. He is multi-talented and a great performer. He is good both in dancing and singing. I'm still shocked until now for he just died without any clue because there's no reports about him having a disease that might be the cause of his death. It's just plain cardiac arrest. It made me realize that death will just strike you unaware. His death gave me a sudden warning to have the time of your life and be happy as well as show your love to those close to your heart for you might know, they are gone already.
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby twistermind » Fri Jun 26, 2009 4:46 am

I was also a fan of him. A friend of mine and I used to make a magazine about him. I have the opportunity to see him singing and dancing alive. So I want to put a song here to remember him.

Michael Jackson - Dirty Diana

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Hg-IRZk4D0
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby bruceselfhelpguy » Sun Jun 28, 2009 11:43 pm

I liked some of his tunes. He was a great performer. I always used to feel sorry for him when the media would make fun of him. I read a biography about him. I came away with the impression that he had been abused as a child in some way, or at the very least did not experience an unconditionally loving childhood. I think this song "Childhood" explains it all..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVJscGa5vbc
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby twistermind » Mon Jun 29, 2009 6:23 am

I also read a biography. It seems that his father was strict with his daughters and sons. When the brothers and his father were in a tour, and they were eating in a restaurant for example, they have to rise their hand up if they wanted to go to the toilet. And this is not the worse.
Here, in my country people voted for the best Michael Jackson´s songs and the results are: Thriller(1st) Billy Jean (2nd) and Beat it (3rd).

I remember when people were at front- door of the pubs and when they listened Michael Jackson´s Thriller they run into in a hurry.
I like many Michael Jackson songs, but I think his verssion of "Don´t blame to the sunshine" is marvelous.
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby crystalr0w3 » Tue Jun 30, 2009 3:35 am

Yeah, twistermind. He has so many great songs that are moving doubled with great videos. Hearing his song makes me feel energized. But despite his fame, MJ is an unhappy person that remains to be a child because of his early exposure to work. It made him skipped his childhood that created some manifestations on his personality. Many doesn't understand what he's going through.

You are right bruceselfhelpguy. He's an excellent performer who is good inboth dancingand singing tha thas originality. Yes, his
childhood is unhappy for he doen't experienced how to play and enjoy as a child.
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby twistermind » Tue Jun 30, 2009 9:00 am

I have been reading another thread in "just for fun" forum that was posted the evening he died and it´s quite interesting. In one post it was suggested that Michael Jackson was a good person really, because his eyes said this and I completely agree.
When you look at the eyes of a person you are discovering his soul. Well, this is my opinion.
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby crystalr0w3 » Wed Jul 01, 2009 1:51 am

Yeah, he's a nice person because he's sweet and his songs speaks for the deprived and unprivileged. His songs reflects the world's reality and concerns on world peace through his deep lyrics. MJ is just human and our experiences as a child has a major influence to our personality. On his life, he has an abnormal childhood. He already worked in such a tender age and the bad effect of it is that, he has not grown up. He just grows up physically but not emotionally. As we can see, he is still immature and since he still acts as a child, he wants to be with children too to which was sensationalized by the media because he is famous and everythinghe did is a big news.
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby twistermind » Wed Jul 01, 2009 12:00 pm

In relation to what you are talking about, one thing called always my attention. He seemed to be more comfortable with both, very young people and older people (for example, Diana Ross, Elizabeth Tailor or Quincy Jones...). That´s something I can related to him. I´m an avoidant, social phobical before and I used to be more comfortable with old people, and of course with young people (my pupils). Obviously, I haven´t got any sexual attration towards any of these groups.
I´m wondering if all these acusations of paedophilia were false, what MJ have been feeling all this time.
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby crystalr0w3 » Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:06 am

Regarding with pedophilia, that we don't know because we're not there but he was acquitted from child molestation. I can sense that Michael is sweet, passionate and playful. I think his being playful was just sensationalized. It was even considered as "bizarre" by some. For me, he's just being playful because he doesn't hurt anybody. He's just teasing.

I'm also overly shy as a child and now I'm still shy but not just like before. My association with people like classmates, workmates, team mates helped me overcome this. I realized, we change as we grow. We are forever changing
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Re: Michael Jackson dies today

Postby twistermind » Thu Jul 02, 2009 7:29 am

Of course, we can´t prove his guiltyness or his inocence. Really I always prefered to ignore this part of his life, because it´s a very delicated topic and I have not faithful information.
One thing, it´s clear many famous stars are surrounding by vulture people who only want to take avantage of the stars. Another example is Maradona. He was always followed and guided by a group of vultures who are not real friends.
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