anxiety when someone shouts at m

I left my mobile in cab two days ago n was in panic mode after that. the cop made me go from one police station to the other n they spoke rudely.
later my relative tells me i should toughen up.

i cant toughen up. i feel immense anxiety when someone raises voice at me. i start shivering n thoughts go haywire. get teary eyed.

i still pray somehow i get the mobile back (no sarcastic reply plz)

Unfortunately I did not get my phone back. I prayed a lot, checked Camera footage but the entire number plate was not visible. I still hope the driver returns the mobile to me out of honesty. But if some other passenger has taken the mobile then chances are slim

still praying i get the mobile back. i was going by same route yesterday and looked around for cab with same name plate. i know the last four digits from cctv camera. couldnt make out first two.
unfortunately cops wont help.
though i dont know how i'll be able to ask/confront driver for phone even if i manage to find and later talk with him. i'll try to bargain as in buy the mobile back. hope it works out. it'd be great if the driver shows honesty now and returns the mobile.
i would be able to withdraw my police complaint.