Sometimes I Really Wish I Could Be Female.

Then sometimes I think it's not so bad being male. I'm not sure if this is an effort to be resolvent to my gender?

It's all very confusing and frustrating! What I do know is, I'm a transvestite and perhaps my “gender confusion” stems from that?

I really need to see a therapist, but whom? Someone who specializes in gender dysphoria, or transvestism?

Hi, Quinn,
Some helpful links for you to explore.
http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaydictiona ... estite.htm
http://www.lauras-playground.com/trans_ ... groups.htm
http://www2.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/ ... sticsm.htm
A therapist that would help you feel okay about your gender and the clothes you like to wear, whether or not they are gender specific, would be helpful. It's not like you need to be cured of anything, or made to be just one gender behaviour at all times; you just need to be more comfortable with yourself. If you like wearing women's clothing and being feminine, fine. There is nothing wrong with that.