Let me start by first saying I have been rejected as a heretic by the community for saying so. I really did have an easy time--transition was the simplest most natural thing I have ever done. I encountered literalky zero issues, physical or social. No discrimination whatsoever, but I live in CA. My hysterectomy was approved at 8 months! When it came time to pass I had no idea how. I just went to the store and bought clothes. Almost nothing in my life changed. I did the medical side at age 31, so I ended up unconciously doing everything else over the course of my life. I was unintentionally prepared when it came time for hormones. Preperation is absolutely critical for a successful transition. With it you also need patience, and a lot of it.
I'm saying this because I can help others who are struggling. I've tried in person but no one believed me and one guy didn't even believe I'm trans. Instead I'm making an offer. I'd like to show people how to engineer their transitions. I did. It took a lot of work, but it was worth it. My only only demand is that you believe me. I spent a lot of time preparing for each and every step and I didn't do anything blindly. So if you need help the resources are there. I'm here just let me know.
I'm not a psychologist, no. But I have been through transition and I have done virtually everything you are looking forward to. More than anything I want to make my experiences useful to someone other than myself. No one is required to trust me blindy. I just want to be of helpl to at least someone. So either reply or PM. It's up to you. Just don't be afraid to ask.