hope this link works -- or paste into search bar -- this article is so profound
I believe someone on this forum shared it a long time ago, here it is again

The psychology of money | Psychology Today
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Describes the author's observations during a visit to Las Vegas, Nevada, in which he analyzes the psychology of gambling. How Las Vegas reveals how Americans view ...
The psychology of money
Describes the author's observations during a visit to Las Vegas, Nevada, in which he analyzes the psychology of gambling. How Las Vegas reveals how Americans view money; How our puritanical impulses collide with our conquistador fantasies; The psychological cost we pay for the dominance of money in our society; How the American Dream has come to mean an ideal of prosperity, not of liberty; Casino culture.
By Michael Ventura, published on March 1, 1995 - last reviewed on June 9, 2016