Issues with two particular fetishes

I have many fetishes but only really have issues with two.

Ok the first one might seem like a pretty big deal so I'll get that one out of the way first. I have pedophilia but at the moment it's only one among my many fetishes, HOWEVER, it is a considerable distress for me. Particular in taking the future into account, I'm worried that my attraction for minors might affect me being able to have a family with a son. Although, right now I have no plan to partake in any sort of activity to harm another person, I am worried that in the future I may have a different outlook. I am worried that possibly when I grow older that particular attraction might become more significant and then I'm not really sure what to do. I can't contact therapy about this at the moment, because of the fact I'm living with my parents and don't really WANT to go to therapy, but I was hoping there could be somewhere I could contact anonymously (preferably through IM communication), it would be nice to just have some piece of mind on the matter. I've told some good online friends of mine and they are very convinced that I won't do anything, but I'm slightly less convinced to be honest.

The second fetish is coprophila; but in particular the act of Coprophagia. See, although I live with my parents I tend to be home alone often so am able to partake in sexual activities involving coprophila, but when I partake in these activities occasionally I'll feel the urge, and will, partake in Coprophagia. I'm nervous that this may cause serious health issues as I know it's not healthy, I tend to be careful though, I do not swallow and tend to clean my mouth thoroughly after the fact. However, even with those efforts I have managed to get mildly sick (just vomiting but nothing really severe) on two occasions from it. This particular fetish is very hard to control, because if I'm horny and I want to go to the toilet and there's no one around, the wanting to go to the toilet won't go away unless I go to the toilet and well, because I'm horny, I'll end up partaking in some acts. On the flip side, getting rid of my arousal through masturbation would also still have the ability to partake in these acts as quite the temptation. So yeah, that's my second thing.

So yeah, just two particular fetishes that are causing me problems, some advice would be appreciated, but thank you for reading regardless!