Newbie wanting to share [wide band rings]

19mm ring currently on Ebay

Just come back from spotting, not one but two women in a crowded high street, both in their late fifties, both together and both wearing wide domed wedding rings.
The irony not lost on me that I wait 15 years and two come along at once!
Not the really wide 20mm ones (that would have been just awesome !) but wide enough for me to follow them for a while till discretion got the better of me.

The whole thing about what happened, just a few hours ago, brings into sharp focus some of the frustrations that go with my Paraphilia/Fetish.

For one thing if their wedding rings had been the really huge ones it might have led me to have taken more risks in following them. And that is a very real possibility. Both with regards my determination and the risks involved in being caught out and put on the spot.

Asking a woman, a perfect stranger, that you want her to tie you up from head to toe in rope because she wears a shape/size specific type of ring (or two women even!) is going to result in one of three possible outcomes.

1/ A slap in the face.
2/ Having them setting the cops on you. Or...
3/ Being taken somewhere and "shown the ropes"!

Unfortunately, the latter,although desirable is,to say the least, unlikely! And there by lies the rub.

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Today I sat down with my Counsellor, face to face, after having left her to digest three pages cribbed from my past posts on this thread, detailing my wedding ring/bondage fetish. As it turned out, what I presented to her even included some all new material.
Abandoning anonymity at last, I find myself now wondering, "What now?". Now I have been advised to refer myself for that kind of support that a Counsellor cannot provide.

Lovely 14.5mm ring which was for sale recently, would be lovely to this on a ladies hand

Here are a few more, "if anyone is still watching"





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Thanks for sharing guys. The ring in the pic posted by Ringfan looks great and I share his sentiments. At 14.5mm it looks pretty wide and only goes to show that these all enveloping bands are still out there in the world and available to be worn. Even the "giants" at 20 and 22mm are most likely adorning some ladies' fingers someplace. Would be awesome if it were only possible for one of them to come forward.

Given the number of views on this thread. I'd say people are still watching. I've edited the title to make it a little easier to find, too. Please let me know if you'd it changed though, brainpan.

Ada wrote:Given the number of views on this thread. I'd say people are still watching. I've edited the title to make it a little easier to find, too. Please let me know if you'd it changed though, brainpan.

Dear Ada I have no problem with you adding a more specific title to the thread I started. It's a great idea. Thanks.

You might also like to know that I have recently opened up to a Psychology specialist concerning my combined wide wedding ring and bondage fetish,among other issues, and took the advice you gave me a long time ago, to approach the subject initially with a written history based around many of my posts on this thread.

I'm finding it something of a relief to finally discuss it with someone outside of the anonymity of a forum. And find myself experiencing a mixture of excitement and uncertainty at openly discussing it further.

Found this on the net. A portrait of Dame Stella Rimington taken at some social event. Rimington was formerly head of MI6, and as you might just make out, she 's wearing a real whopper. A real "Spy Ring" you might say!

The picture was only quite small, so the resolution on the cropped image is not the best. But with pictures of rings of this size being such rare finds, you have to take what you can find.