An embaressing fetish

You didn't think it would go away overnight did you? Have you ever tried to break an addiction before? The reality is that the urge never goes away, it just becomes easier to ignore. That's true for smoking, drinking, drugs, gambling, ANY addiction. You have to help yourself with these things, you can't expect the efforts of others on your behalf to have any effect whatsoever on the problem. It's cold, and nobody likes to hear it, but that's how it is. You can either accept the fact that your kinda attracted to penises and stop letting it bother you, or you can think about hating yourself for the rest of your life because you don't think your normal. I'm a guy and I'm bi, but I don't let my sexual interests determine who I am. You would never be able to tell anyways unless I told you. You may not want to be attracted to shemale porn, but you are. Quit worrying about it so damn much. How is it affecting your life? That sounds a little exaggerated to me.

Land_of_dogs wrote:Does anyone else have any good advice.

I might, I've only had a 3 week experience with it, but I have been addicted to thought porn for the past 16 years. I've got a very active imaginantion and I didn't even have to see anything to get there, anyways 2 years ago I used this site to break free of certain areas of my life, http://www.porn-free.org/

I'd agree with the poster that said porn is the overall problem, not the subcategory. I've seen this stuff tear up marriages and turn someone into another person. It breaks down how one connects or relates to other also.

note: just noticed I didn't see the other pages before posting this, sorry.

hey land of dogs or whatever, i just made an account to let you know you are not alone and i am the same way,i tried quiting ccold turkey and it kinda worked but i keep kinda coming back to it,

but someone online explained it in a way that makes sense, so i'll try my best to explain it how he did, the attraction to shemale porn is because of the perverse-ness to it mainly, and because you don't really have any relationship type attraction to em, and the reason its harder to get turned on by girls is because you want a real love relationship when it comes to real life interaction, and that seeing them act like whores isn't your bag,

but yeah its partially that (i didn't explain it so well), and also the fact that you've (as well as me) gotten bored of reg porn cuz theres no thrill, and i don't think theres a big deal with pporn though, keep jerkin to em till your bored with em, when you accept it , i've noticed, you get bored with it majorly fast, im working to get myself off of it as welll, having sex for real prolly would solve it, but what some of those ppl posting don't notice is that it's difficult to get laid and thats why we search porn in the first place, so don't worry bro you aint alone, you'll get over it one day, as well as me or at least i hope, just think could you really FALL IN LOVE with a shemale? or have sex with one for real?, thats what'd make it gay anyways,

my advice would be to reduce the porn habit. and not to be embarrased. im a male and i am very much turned on by the same thing. tho i am bisexual and my fiancee is fine with my fetish. i would say just dont worry urself so much. and to atempt to find a shemale would be verrry chalenging.

As a female, I would just like to point out that I have watched my fair share of tranny porn, t-girls with both men and women. I obviously don't want my boyfriend to run out, get a boob job, and start taking hormones.. I just happen to have a strong leaning towards pretty men, boobs or no boobs. I agree with the taboo theory. Though, if I am to be honest with myself, I probably wouldn't have turned down a pretty enough t-girl who was into girls if I had met one at any point where I was single. Even though I have only had sex with men, I think I would call myself an omnisexual who leans towards straight sex.

I watch porn on occasion but if it is really having that big of an impact on your existence, I agree that you should look for help. If I get turned on by something new on porn sites, I don't worry about it. I may start worrying about it if it's something that can hurt someone else. (well, hurt them without their consent) I do agree with the statement that maybe you got tired of seeing girls being portrayed as whores since a woman is what you ultimately want to have a relationship with. I don't know.. I can't give much advice since I don't have a porn addiction and I'm not even the same sex, but I just agree that if it's an issue, then try and get some help/support.

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It could possibly mean you are bi and there is nothing wrong with it, I also like transexuals as much as women and I don't see anything wrong with it! It could be curioysity and a passing phase but if you continue to keep watching it it may be a big part of you! Cheers!

Being attracted to MtF transsexuals, as a male, doesn't make you gay.