*Hi* I'm new here to the forums and have questions etc.

Hi, I'm new here and I was going through the fetish thread for hours (I'm not obsessed haha.)
And couldn't help but notice, that a lot and I mean A LOT of people feel guilty for their fetishes and want to state I do not feel guilty at ALL (maybe cause they are harmless) and for the ones that are somewhat extreme, it is just in fantasy and will never be experienced in real life.
I just want to know is there ANYBODY out there with no shame?
Cause I've seen some pretty harmless stuff and even still people have guilt for some reason.
Maybe I'm just aloof about it all (haha.)
I'm not shaming the shameful.
I just feel like a robot because I have no shame.
-If this is for people with fetishes that are distressed by them could you pm me a fetish community that has no distress (if you are not allowed to talk about other sites on here then forget the whole thing and if even mentioning about mentioning of sites is not welcomed if anything just edit this part out but I don't think it would be edited since I said "forget the whole thing.")-
Most if not all my fetishes are harmless so maybe that is why I feel no shame.
Anyone can comment but I'm just wondering if anybody on here has no shame and enjoys their fetish.
Like I said, if this is all for distress I will still use this site for about mental illness.
Thanks for your time.

I have a few days here and there where I feel a bit guilty, but 99% of the time I don't feel any shame.

My fetishes/paraphilias are harmful though, but only if I act on them. I never have acted on them though and I never, ever plan to. I don't really have a desire to act on them either, I just like imagining them in my head.

I think the guilt for most people with harmful ones come from the fact that they do want to act on them, and it makes it really hard for them because it's a battle for them not to.

P0ppy wrote:I have a few days here and there where I feel a bit guilty, but 99% of the time I don't feel any shame.

My fetishes/paraphilias are harmful though, but only if I act on them. I never have acted on them though and I never, ever plan to. I don't really have a desire to act on them either, I just like imagining them in my head.

I think the guilt for most people with harmful ones come from the fact that they do want to act on them, and it makes it really hard for them because it's a battle for them not to.

Yea, I understand, but I did see some people say stuff like they have for example "ejaculated" on an object as simple as gloves, footwear, etc, and to me, objects to me never bother me specially if you use them for a sex toy, but, if you are literally attached to that object, then it becomes a problem.

FreakOfTheDemonDoll wrote:Anyone can comment but I'm just wondering if anybody on here has no shame and enjoys their fetish.
Like I said, if this is all for distress I will still use this site for about mental illness.

Good question! I'd say a reasonable number of forum members enjoy or see the good side of their fetish[es]. However, as I write often in the BDSM forum. Mostly those people are getting on with the enjoying. There's perhaps not so much to discuss when things are going well. [There are exceptions of course, several long running threads in this forum are positive discussions and sharing.] But it's logical to me that the majority come with a problem. Especially since it's not easy to share this with people offline.

I'm a pedophile and a lipstick fetishist but I feel shame for neither

Right on, dude.