Gian wrote:Hello All,
Noticed this thread has over 5k hits. Makes me wonder how many choose to remain in the closet with this complex fetish.
I like most recall the first experience being at the age of 4-5. It is and remains one of the most powerful and complicated inner struggles in my life. So much so that after finding that "I was not the only one" around 1996. I found myself compelled to participate in the internet sites that some of you have referenced in this thread. To this day, I still work with a handful of trusted people who along with myself produce/re create the damsel in distress,stranded female.It's certainly not for the money,I can tell you after buying and maintaining cars,Cameras,paying Models and covering website cost.
My point is.. I think I do it to satisfy my desire to see, be involved with the thing I want most. The irony of it is,It doesn't do anything for me being a staged creation that I myself know is fake.I do enjoy watching other sites productions even if it's not my choice of Model,footwear,etc.
The thing I strive for the most,Is still a million miles away.
Hi Mr Gian,
Glad to find you here. If I'm correct, you're from pedalsupreme ? Well you see I have been struggling with this fetish for amost 2 yrs now and have figured out a LOT of things which you might find helpful to discover in your own part of the subconscious mind. Below I have some data :-
The following aspects involved in it have been dealt with and compromised :-
->Sensitization to cranking sound :- (submission phase)
a) The hard cranking/starting creates a TENSE situation whereby the pedal is being UNNECESSARILY excessively pumped during when the engine is catching leading to it (engine) being immoderately/overly fired/ignited. This creates a very intense sound of the engine. Realizing that the person doing this actually has no "mechanical sense" worked for me. The false image created was a dominatrix "forcing" the car to reach it's "climax" with the use of her power but in reality she simply has no mechanic sense.
b) The key being over turned + grinding sound of the starter. Again a false submission image created i.e painful intense sounds. Again the reality is the person doing it has no mechanical sense.
-> Hard revving :- (domination phase)
a) The car undergoes a loud rev as soon as it starts (after hard start) : This creates a false image of domination and control but in reality the pedal is usually not released on time right after it fires up and an immediate rev is after all necessary to avoid the engine being cut out.
What still gets me (haunts me and probably will keep haunting) is the part ( and still the major chunk ) where the person (attractive female) "chooses" (on purpose) to rev hard the engine after it has started, even though it COULD have been lightly/moderately revved. It revives the image of a powerful dominatrix who has complete control. Her show of her sexiness power and domination makes her alluring especially over the fact that she gives the car such a treatment that even a man will not give, she having excelled and surpassed men makes her stand out and reflect her power/influence which make her image very seductive. I am still sensitized to this part of the sound. I have failed to overcome this part.... this is the TOUGHEST thing I've ever faced to overcome .
I am and WILL try to go a period of atleast 10 months (preferably years regarding the time period I've had this i.e 6 yrs of age) without this fetish and see if any neuro chemical imbalances (if any) restore to their blue print state. If not I'm afraid to say, this might be everlasting....
Its a fantasy BDSM type fetish. Its mainly about domination submission roleplay, with the "sound" of the cars(carburetor only) possessing meaning. It involves being attracted to powerful women, it's about the power status and control which generates seductiveness. People with this fetish might not be at all interested in actual BDSM which involves real pain.
Generally speaking, fetishes have a "shock" factor to them which is overwhelming for the individual. The more the nature of the event is shocking for the person, the harder it is for him to cope with (and hence the stronger the fetish). So to cope with that very specific event, his body finds an outlet for him in a sexual way, i.e it forms a sexual link to the associated event hence the fetish arises.
A better question than "Why does this fetish arouse you?" or "what's so arousing in this?" would be "Why is this content so shocking and overwhelming for you?" because this is a type of question that is tackling the roots to the problem...
You can find several threads here on this fetish :-
http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewforum.php?f=33Also I had found this thread (about an year ago) where you have been involved :-
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/sex-marria ... get-2.htmlAs you can see here, I have done extensive research here... If you don't mind, do you care to keep communications with me at regular intervals ? By email or social media etc. It might be very beneficial, helpful and interesting.
Out of curiosity, may I ask that what exactly is the thing you are trying to strive for the most ?
Looking forward !