Intense foot fetish

I'm a 26yo male and have an intense foot fetish and have had one since just after puberty, it never really lessened over the years. Looking at attractive feet excites me more than any other body part on some women; to the point where my heart races and I become very excited, almost in love with them. I want to kiss and cuddle them and obviously have sex with them. I know it's one of the most common fetishes out there but it seems to be over the top for me.

Honestly it's gotten to the point where I'm only interested in having a girlfriend for a footjob or just sex with their feet, I wouldn't even care about having normal intercourse. When I did have sex in the past I always had to involve their feet to finish somehow. I used to have a girlfriend that would let me do what I wanted with hers and often times she'd let me even sleep next to them along with the other usual foot worship stuff and I loved this. I masturbate to feet regularly and sometimes feel like it's my main orientation in a way, as weird as that sounds. Is there any way to lessen this or make me more normal? I can't imagine most women would be happy with someone who only wants to make love to their feet and not really do anything else.. :p I don't feel like it's something I could easily change..

You are normal right now. Fetishes are deeply hardwired, and I'm not really sure that they can be shifted all that much.

stack42553 wrote:I can't imagine most women would be happy with someone who only wants to make love to their feet and not really do anything else.. :p

That depends what they're getting out of it. It wouldn't be fair to commit to a relationship with someone who wants to go out on dates and whatever else. If this is really the only part you want. If you're willing to "go along" with some of that stuff, including the sex she'd like to have. Then she might also "go along" with your own desires. But you'd both need to be quite honest about this. In order for it not to explode in disappointment and blame on both sides. Or, you might be able to find someone for an "arrangement". Craigslist, or your local equivalent, would help here. Again relating to fulfilling desires, but without deeper emotional involvement.

Otherwise, with apologies for stating the obvious. Many sex workers would be quite happy to accommodate this. They're getting paid, you get off 100% in the way you want. You could find one person and be "monogamous". Or play the field and see the range of feet out there. This depends very much on where you live of course. Just a thought.

In terms of lessening it. It might be worth considering the longer term view. Are you happy single and genuinely just want someone around for when you're horny? Or did the arrangement with your previous GGG girlfriend work and you'd like something more like that?

That's true, I guess every relationship is about compromise. Things with my last girlfriend worked fine for me but I'm not so sure she was totally satified and I think it was part of the reason she left, maybe feeling she was more of an object. At any rate I'll never know. I can have regular sex though it just doesn't really do anything for me and her feet have to be involved or I have to be touching them. I've thought of some of your suggestions before different girls would be something I'd be content with. As far as being single goes, I'm fine with it now, but at some point I would like a partner to grow old with, I just feel like this is sort of a niche thing and would get in the way, as I'm barely into anything as much (breasts, etc)as I adore feet.