Newbie voicing my interests...

Hi all, i'm very intrigued now that Ive found this forum. Ive always wanted to discuss my sexual fetish and also my fiances fetish(es). Now I'm certainly not judgmental when it comes to any sort of fetish, more interested on the subject if I'm honest...

I'm trying to understand my partners fetishes at the moment, he is very much into shemale porn or as i prefer transsexual porn as i know the word shemale can be quite offensive to some. As i said i don't judge and really just want to ask what your opinions on a straight man enjoying this sort of porn are?

Ive looked into it as much as i can, i personally don't enjoy it and Ive found a lot of evidence that there are many straight men who enjoy this. I just sometimes wonder if I'm really pleasing my man.

Now the majority of videos Ive accidentally found in our shared computer history are of a transsexual having anal sex with a male. Is there any difference in the receiving part being female or male?

It took a while for him to admit this fetish and only after i admitted i had an odd or frowned upon fetish did he tell me, even now he doesn't like to talk about it and gets quite defensive if i ever try to ask him anything. Hopefully you guys or girls could help me understand this and also tell me whether i should try to discuss it further with him or just let him enjoy his personal time? Ive also found searches for granny porn, chubby porn and BBW. Slightly taboo but to me anything can be a normal fetish, it is just that a fetish!