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Question on crushes

Postby sharpie22 » Sat Mar 23, 2024 4:28 am

Hi, a friend of mine is wondering has anyone heard of a having a secret crush for years?
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Re: Question on crushes

Postby Snaga » Mon May 06, 2024 1:10 am

I'm sure plenty of people have had crushes lasting long periods of time, especially if unrequited. I know I have, although my longest lasting ones wouldn't exactly be secret, such as celebrity crushes. But yeah sure I've harbored secret attractions towards people I have met or known, with them never the wiser.
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Re: Question on crushes

Postby sharpie22 » Tue May 14, 2024 4:56 am

Thank you, I see about people having secret crushes. My friend thinks he's got a crush but he hasn't seen the person in in a long time. He's also afraid of talking to crushes if they call the police on him. You have any suggestions?
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Re: Question on crushes

Postby Snaga » Wed May 15, 2024 2:33 am

Why would someone call the police for talking to them?
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Postby katzklaw » Wed May 15, 2024 12:29 pm

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Re: Question on crushes

Postby sharpie22 » Thu May 16, 2024 5:41 am

My friend showed me that it happens in the news.

Thank you katzklaw but he is looking for a wife.
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Re: Question on crushes

Postby Snaga » Sun May 19, 2024 11:45 pm

sharpie22 wrote:My friend showed me that it happens in the news.


Well I'd like to know how just talking to someone could get a body arrested, unless they were unduly persistent, but I'll take your word for it. All I know is nothing ventured, nothing gained.

How old are we talking about? I hear it's pretty rough on Gen Z. My generation had it a lot easier we weren't worried about being 'offensive' or being accused of anything and everything. I read it's really hard out there these days.
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Re: Question on crushes

Postby sharpie22 » Sun May 26, 2024 5:32 am

Thank you, my friend mentioned ages like 20 to 30, and it seems to be rough. That is good to hear your generation was easier.
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Re: Question on crushes

Postby sharpie22 » Sun Jun 16, 2024 5:50 am

My friend wants to know if anyone knows of matrimonial sites, please?
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