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I want to confront an old friend but don’t know how to do it

Postby DeLads » Fri Mar 03, 2023 9:31 pm

Narcissist, psychopath or sociopath?

Hello,

I have been keeping my eyes on someone and really want to ask them what’s wrong. They are acting very, very strange and I was wondering if I could have some general opinions and opinions from people’s past experiences as to what category they think fits with this person.


Some of the things they are doing are:

- nervous when someone says hello after a few years
- Seemingly love bombing people (including me)
- Following half naked “models” on instagram and twitter when he is meant to be with someone
- Stating that they love being toxic
- Seemingly obsessed with appearance
- Hating when people are happy
- Sometimes acts child-like at 23
- Acting passive aggressive
- Playing sad songs. Sometimes before meeting someone they “love”
- Aggressive if you have a different opinion
- Always wants to be superior and calls himself god
- Posts sad quotes online
- Posts pictures of him and his “partner” and then deletes after a week
- Livestreams looking “sad”
- Donates a lot to a bunch of streamers Maybe for validation?
- Spends most of the day on pc and hardly any sleep. But looks fine and has a lot of caffeine
- Gets offended really easily and will defend his position that he is right. Hardly any compromise.

There’s so many red flags and I just don’t know how to approach them to ask about it.

Thank you
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Re: I want to confront an old friend but don’t know how to do it

Postby tetwothree » Tue Apr 25, 2023 11:57 pm

Maybe look in the DSM manual and check what category where his behavior checks all the boxes.
He could be bipolar 1 with high manic states. And or drugs. Actually sounds a lot like my sister, who is very hard to figure out. She has ADHD, and I think is also Bipolar 1 and or BPD, and narcissistic and or histrionic. Damaged ego, insecure, and a huge huge right fighter. A real PIA to be around and a constant source of aggravation.
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