by katfish67 » Wed May 18, 2005 1:09 pm
i have been married for 20 years myself and mine had abused me in the past, now it is just vurble sometimes. I have left him and not sure if i even missed him so much as i missed my bed , house , kids , dog , yard everything but him. but when he did come to mind i did not want to think of the bad just the good. if you do miss him it is because (U) loved him or u would not have stayed there so long. and a creapy as it sould like Sweet said u miss the familiarity, use abuse women are kinda weard that is what they are tring to find out now in a report i saw on tv why we go back or wont leave, we love the dumbasses and miss our lifes. and somewhere in the back of our minds we keep thinking and they make us think we did something wrong and all we want is for it to get better , so we stay in the hopes that one day it will and we will be happy and he will stop. Its kinda like the way they say that a person that is kindnaped starts to feel sorry for or develop feeling for there kindnaper. same for us, why i have no ideia but may be worth reading up on. and for when it will stop when you find a man or he finds u, that will sweep you off your feet and that will stand up for you and stand up to him if need be. your knight in shining aromor.