Anyone ever leave their home and....

then go back and find all their belongings trashed and records destroyed?

Thanks, Monica

Yep...everytime I would threaten to leave and successfully get out the door (normally he'd yank me back in by my collar and pry the keys out of my hands) I'd come back to broken pictures, broken cabinets, holes in the walls, etc. This time, I left him for GOOD three weeks ago, I can only imagine what he's done to the apartment. I left all my belongings in Texas and got the "f" out. I bet my clothes are in rags, my dishes are on the floor, and all the beautiful decorations are gone. But, you know what? The dogs and me are safe so who cares about the rest?-Emily

A home is not a hotel. You cannot checkout everytime you don't like the service. Using noncommunication as a weapon does not solve problems. Women that leave their young girls as a weapon of continuous noncommunication and hate deserve to be punished in some way. Destruction of personal property is not as harmful as destroying the security of a family. You deserve worse.

notalways wrote:A home is not a hotel. You cannot checkout everytime you don't like the service. Using noncommunication as a weapon does not solve problems. Women that leave their young girls as a weapon of continuous noncommunication and hate deserve to be punished in some way. Destruction of personal property is not as harmful as destroying the security of a family. You deserve worse.

I will ask you not to tell any members on this forum that they deserve worse.

Please do not post these types of posts again.

Thank you.

Not always-

I was in total shock when I read what you wrote. I can not comprehend how you could tell someone what you did. Obviously you have never been in an abusive relationship. Nobody deserves abuse. PERIOD. No matter what the situation.

my dad once told me that everything i thought i owned.. was actually his, and he could do what ever he wanted with it..

i ran away... he stole my guitar.. and trashed my room.. bastard

my dad once told me that everything i thought i owned.. was actually his, and he could do what ever he wanted with it..

i ran away... he stole my guitar.. and trashed my room.. bastard

Friggin JERK!! That makes me very angry. He had no right whatsoever to do that.


[/quote]A home is not a hotel. You cannot checkout everytime you don't like the service. Using noncommunication as a weapon does not solve problems. Women that leave their young girls as a weapon of continuous noncommunication and hate deserve to be punished in some way. Destruction of personal property is not as harmful as destroying the security of a family. You deserve worse.

you need help