For the littles

hi Annie! I haven't talked to you in a while and hi Sasha hi scar hi bunny! I missed you bunny we should talk on Skype sometime if you want.
I get lonely too and I wish I could play on a playground in day time but I can only go after dark when no one is there to swing. I wish there were other kids in here too... Maybe I wouldn't be so lonely then too, but is okay. Alex does what he can and Steve let's me ride on his shoulders and use his hair to stear him!

Hi Annie! . youre right! pupple is a fun name to say! bubble reminds me of powerfuf girls.. puppy dog loved bubbles and i do too. . and we are doing something very very fun! me and the other littles are watching daneil tiger's neighborhood. i love that show. somebody cried when we were watching a lesson about "grown ups come back." i dont know why, but i heard the others say it came from our littlest alter. its fun to know that we can reach her even though shes sleeping inside.

and its ok about being scared and mad and worried about things. puppy dog is scared and worried all time time. shes scared a lot! and we have a mean alter who is mad alot alot alot!



and hi Sasha! We have a big big rabbit stuff toy! but its not as big as the body anymore. it used to be when the body was younger. one of my favorite teachers gave it to us! and we still kept it. she's white and soft and lovely! i really like her a lot.



and hi Daimen! your pretty lucky you can go to the swing at night! its been a LOOONG time since we swinged in a playground.. the last time was at a zoo. Sonnet and her friends were there and i joined the fun. it was great! i wish we could go there again and play. but we also have to keep the system a seeecret, so we can't go there unless we really really need to.

and its ok if you dont have littles or you feel loney. every system is diffrent and its ok to feel that way. bigs can be fun to play with too! everyone in the system is amazing and is there for you! i like that steve lets your ride him. that sounds like fun! .



im going to finish wathcing daneil tiger's neighbor hood with our other littles inside. a lot of the lessons would be good for the bigs to learn too, and its pretty fun to play with the system. . i like spending time with them!

HI Daimen ! Hi pupple

Diaman see i knew there was someone i forgot! sorry -- but hey that is great, i want to ride on somebody's shoulders and steer with the hair, cept I think i wuld use the ears, "Big horse go that way! and pull on the ear No the other way! and pull on the other ear -- do you kick him if you want him to go faster? that is so funny! I mean i wuld be nice , i wuldn't kick hard or pull the ears hard or anything. And then your horsey could say NAAAAY, and you culd say giddiyup, and play cowboys and stuff! and see if we both had horsey's then we culd see who culd go faster. One time I was riding horsey and i laughed so hard i fell right off!

i know! maybe i culd get a broom and it culd be my horse; that's what Im gonna do tonite for fun even if we do gotta work and do boring stuff -- i bet I culd convince will to let me use the broom for my horsey before bedtime. So if you guys hear horses clop clopping by, that's me and i'll be saying howdy pardner!

okay bye! clop clop clop

ThatPerson wrote:hi Annie! I haven't talked to you in a while and hi Sasha hi scar hi bunny! I missed you bunny we should talk on Skype sometime if you want.

Sorry, I didn't mean to go missin, our dad only gets payed once a month, so we foodshop at the start of the month. But there isnt much left by the end so we sleep more to use less food until dad gets paid again.

Violarules wrote:Hi Sea!

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ScarletSorrowfulRose wrote:

Seangel wrote: Hi Sasha, and Valkyrie. Sea

Hello Seangel,
I finally found a name for myself. I understand you are aware of this and I will attempt not to detract from the general theme of this forum but I am nonetheless satisfied with it. It feels nice to be able to distinctly separate myself from the whole as person, even for something as simple as a name. We even get along better now.

Sincerely
--Valkyrie

Valkyrie is a very nice name. I'm glad you feel satisfied by it, and you both get along better.

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ScarletSorrowfulRose wrote: Hey Sea and everyone,
Might be the wrong forum for this but does anybody have any advice for communicating with my little. She might front very rarely (Valkyrie and I can only remember 3 occasions in the past few months), and I know that she is quiet and shy but I thought that having her here might help her a lot as she is sometimes very lonely and likes company.

--Scarlet

Allow and Invite her to be with you. When you are having nice moments, share them with her. Talk to her, ask her how she's doing, what does she need from you, send her lots of love. Invite her to do things she likes. Be a channel for that to happen if at the beginning she doesn't front that often. Make a cozy environment for her to come out, have color books, stuffies, blankets, things she feels comfortable and safe in. Create a bond with her.

This is a pretty cool question, and it will be something you both will enjoy. I have done this myself with my inner child. Healing it, from past fears and traumas.

Wish you the best Scarlet,

Sea

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anniebananie wrote:Hi Everyone! Hi sasha (quiet), Bunny, Valkyrie, Pupple, Puppy Dog, Evan, Sea, and I know I'm forgetting someone --

Hi annie bananie.

Sea

i haven't got to be on here in a long time! miss all of the new frends i made, so hihihi! would be nice to talk on skipe or stuff but bigs wont let us. i think there to scared all the tiem though we safe now and i dont see why i m not alloud to talk as me in person. Gets me mad. becase talkin to peeple like from here it woodnt be weerd that the body is big becase you guys get it becase you have big bodies to. the hed hurts so i going to go back in. bigs sayd we cant take stuff becase cant have blod thiner before surjery. i don't want to get surjery either cuz its goin to hert. sides Cassidy wants talk to.

I am scared about the surgery too. It's to fix problems with our feet and it's supposed to stop some of the pain we have, but it's going to be a while before it's better. I'm gonna be sooooo booooooored. We'll have to sit for weeks. Pru's husband is going to stay home and help though, so that is cool.

Want to say hi to everyone. Didn't read all the posts we missed because it was like 8 pages. There is lots of stuff going on in real life, so have not had a chance to come here much. Maybe being stuck on our butts will give extra time to come here and see all you guys.

Hi Cassie and Cassidy - Sorry you have to have surgery. We HATE stuff like that!!! They're supposed to give you pain meds so you don't feel anything so don't let them forget and be sure to take all your pills. We hope it doesn't hurt at all and we are glad someone will be taking care of you.

Hi Valkyrie - That's a super neat name and some of our Teens wish they had such a cool name!!!

Hi Sea - I think you're right about being with kids because most of us are kind of scared and want to hide so making things super safe is good. I like to draw so Host let me draw and long time before we talked at all.

Evan

safety is a good thing but I don't come out around anyone. Not even Alex's wife 'cus she scares me. When the browed ups told her that it hurt her feelings I think.

ThatPerson wrote:safety is a good thing but I don't come out around anyone. Not even Alex's wife 'cus she scares me. When the browed ups told her that it hurt her feelings I think.

IainEtc wrote:Hi Sea - I think you're right about being with kids because most of us are kind of scared and want to hide so making things super safe is good. I like to draw so Host let me draw and long time before we talked at all.

Evan

That's very nice. Trust was built before you got to talk.

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ThatPerson wrote:safety is a good thing but I don't come out around anyone. Not even Alex's wife 'cus she scares me. When the browed ups told her that it hurt her feelings I think.

That's ok.

People need to develop bonds, specially a kid, specially if this kid has gone through rough stuff. Bonds, in my opinion, are made by acknowledging the other and by giving each other the time to feel comfortable around one another. Maybe you both need time.

Sea

Alex wife wanted to have a movie night next weekend sometime. She said we could watch disny moveys and she said she would make me hot chocolate... I dunno how I feel about it though, cus what if she tries to touch me or something? I kinda wanna do it but maybe I'll just copilot an let Alex be in front ove me... I dunno. What do you thing sea? You seem really grown up about things so I'm shure you'd have some ideas....