How does an outsider make peace with a protector?

How does an outsider make peace with a protector?

Moved this to the DID forum. It will get more responses there...

In my opinion, for what it is worth: By being loving, supportive, excepting, yet real. They will c through phony n a heartbeat, and believe me it will work against u. U gotta realize being protective of all those with n us, or whoever, is what they believe their job is. And yet they r hurt and need to b loved and supported as well. Just really love the hell out of them. Do not, ever, ever ever play favorites. Try to find out what they r interested n. All the same things u would do if u were trying to make friends with anyone. But b real, if u disagree with something, then express it.
For me, and i will say it again, though many may disagree with me, and thats ok. None of my protectors have chosen to keep that as their sole identity when educated with they facts that we r no longer n that trauma time, and that they really were not birthed to b that. If they could have protected me, any one of them, I would not have so many of me's. R brain allowed us to split because of the severity of the trauma. They have all felt releaved to breath out alot of that responsibility, and start embracing other aspects of their personalities. Blessings

I'm a protector. I don't want anyone screwing with Morgan. That's my job. That's what I do and that's what I've BEEN doing. So you have to have the same mindset as me to get me to like you. Trust me I don't like anyone unless they think like me. Ain't that kind of person. You wanna be my friend? You gotta want to save Morgan from every harm that comes her way. You gotta love her. You gotta shield her. And for god's sakes don't you ever lie to me or to her or hurt her in any way. So if you're friends with someone with DID and that person's got a protector that don't like you, it's probably because the protector thinks you're weak. Prove yourself.

Nadine