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Re: I have a question.... [help needed]

Postby Aecy » Thu Jun 16, 2011 9:00 pm

Hi. 'S ok here. I don't talk much but I look a lot. There aren't a lot of littles talkin much because they don't really feel very safe with all these people around and you never know what's gonna happen because people are hard ta predict. Specially with the adult stuff around here. But it's ok as long as yer watched. I don't think you hafta worry about anybody hurtin you.

We've got violet. She's always doing bad things cuz she just doesn't have things right in her head I think and so she has a hard time with stuff a lot. But when she does something bad, she has to take responsibility and work on not doing it again.

Do you have any snuggly ones in there...? If you have a snuggly one you can maybe have them make you feel more comfy and less afraid by letting them help. And as the host, 's long as both you and your host learn and work on tryin not to do it anymore, then it's good because you learned from it and as long as you learned and did better because of a bad thing it's not really that bad and it's ok. So maybe you can stop bein afraid and scared and stuff and you can maybe be happy and move on if you remember that. That's what we try to do.

'S hard to get a big one to listen to a little kid. There's gotta be a better way to do it. Hurting can't be done, it'll only make things worse, so you gotta try to see if you can be less angry and try to see if you guys can work it out and not be hurting or fighting or stuff because if you can do that things'll get better.

To the host: Is there anythin you can do to try to listen to her more? I know it's hard ta try to listen to a little, especially if she's really strong and does scary not good stuff, but littles take patience and stuff. I dunno how, but maybe there's a way to tell when she really needs ta stop and get a break instead of just a time when she's just being a kid and doesn't think she can handle stuff but can.

Hopefully things go good for you guys.

Timothy
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We're each me, yet not each other. We work together and share information; we're quite co-conscious.

The "three sections/three gatekeepers" theory is holding.
Don't listen too closely to Ned. He thinks too hard. [OCD]
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Re: I have a question.... [help needed]

Postby Nakimachan14 » Mon Jun 20, 2011 3:49 pm

Hi chibixal!

Sorry I was away. :) I wasn't feeling too good but my host helped me. And others helped me too. Now I'm happy again! I want to play and I want to write to my new friends!

I love juice too! Tea is hot, not too good. Maybe if is is sugary it would be nice. :) I don't like much tea but I like to play drinking tea. Apple juice is good too but my host doesn't like apple juice. She's funny! :D What is oolon? What is sweet tea? Is it like juice?

Is chocolate milk like cocoa and hot chocolate? I like both! I want to drink it now. :) My host promised to give me some cocoa drink. I'll have to go eat now!

Bye!


My alter was being watched the whole time s/he was writing. ^^ I never let her/him alone in here!

-- 20 Jun 2011, 19:03 --

To: LittleRedDog

You are old! :D I don't play with old people!

Sorry about that. ^^; S/he is used to play with younger alters.

E is old dog! :D I like dogs but I also afraid of them a bit... They might bite. But E don't bite! E is really happy and funny dog! I like E! I should go now... My hsot don't like me to be out too long. It is dangerous for me.
Bye!


S/he tried to take control over me and that's not safe enough - I had to ask her/him to come back inside. We'll have to be careful with her/him since my alters have learned full control! :)

S/he is feeling better now! ^^ S/he was quite a long time depressed and sad but now things are OK.

-- 22 Jun 2011, 07:10 --

Hi Aecy/Timothy.

Thank you for your concern and help. :)

I'm happy to tell you that things are going much better with her/him! We just get stuck at times and it takes a while to understand what s/he's trying to say. And the person who scratched me wasn't actually her/him but an alter of her/him. (Alter of an alter.) And we can all now communicate very well! :)

My alter that uses green text got a bit scared of you and your text for some reason. I'm sure you didn't mean it (or DID you?) and I'm passing my thoughts to my alter. :)

The red one is one of my most aggressive protectors. Sorry about her surfacing - she's just doing her job. ^^;
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