does anyone know what the hell this is ?

my ex girlfriend, she is 43....she passed out once, and when she came to, for a split second had the devil in her eyes and then tossed water on me....one nite, our eyes were 8 inches apart in the semi dark bedroom...I swear her eyes changed, and then she smacked me....I know she had something awful happen to her 15 years ago, I almost think she was involved in things illegal..possible a child involved,( i looked at court records and it seems she has a secret kid, didnt get custoday), I just found out recently....anyway, one crazy story after another and all her problems are from sex and irresponsibilty, oh, and she told me she had herpes 2 months ago, after 3 years..either way she is lying thru her teeth...it just seems like she is 'monitered', overlooked by her doctor brother ( who is apparently dying) and her 78 year old mother, who lives 5 floors up from her(plus I met her mother ONCE, and wondered how many times she used me as an excuse to do whatver she was doing........she has a six year old.......I am inclined to believe she is still a bdsm 'slave' to someone(HA).or an escort..something isnt right....she claims to have ben sexually assaulted, but the story is absurd...sounds absurd i know..but this time of year, she freaks out a bit.....she can also be cruel, claims to have stalkers,and she can make you believe the sun is bright at 3 am..........am I describing a condition?.....of course she is stunning and articulate claims to have a phd ( does not) seems to try make herself more important than she is......im sure you see the symptoms thru the lies.....oh, lately she has accused me of being threatening and abusive.......I guess youc an tell how sex was with her...HA.....I dunno, whaddya think symptom wise

Hi, TheBeast

DID could be one explanation, but I don't think there's any way anyone here could make a good guess as to what was going on with her. We would need to hear her side of the story.

TheBeast wrote:she claims to have ben sexually assaulted, but the story is absurd...sounds absurd i know..but this time of year, she freaks out a bit.

How is the story absurd? And how does she freak out? Sometimes, if someone has been through something traumatic, they can have a really hard time with certain times of the year (when abuse occurred in the past).

Is there any particular reason that you want to know what was going on?

I'm pretty sure she would need a real professional to diagnos her. I can think of a few things that sounds like she could have but it takes work. Maybe read up on a few possibilities and see for your self. Try borderline personality disorder or bi polar for starters then go from there.

It sounds to me like she might be either Bipolar, Borderline, or also have a histronic personality, or maybe a mix of a few different issues. I'm no doctor but it sounds like there is a need for professional help.

The sexual assault story...............she claims that at college , some guy broke into her dorm room at 5 am and assaulted her.....of course I felt awful...I asked if she knew him, she said she went out with him once or twice but nothing happened....she tells me that he 'bribed' the security gaurd to get in the bulding and broke her door down......it made no sense to me...I asked how he broke into the dorm room and not make a sound, as those dorm-room doors are very thick.....she admitted she let him in....( sneaking a guy in her room and it went wrong it seems)....I asked if the guy was arrested but she said he couldnt be because of diplomatic immunity ( no police involvment nothing, the police have to be involved for that ' immunity' to be brought up. then she left the college under mysterious circumstances).....its BS......she got tossed out for having a guy in her room........best I can explain her ?...did yous e the movie The Usual Suspects?....when verbal is telling the story about hwat happened, then he leaves....the cop turns around and realises that the story he was told wa taken from bits and pieces from the stuff lying around the office.....

Hi, TheBeast! Maybe she really was assaulted but she twisted the truth a bit because facing what really happened is too scary, it could be a defense mechanism. I saw your post in one of the abuse forums but decided to reply here since you made a second post in this thread too. Yep, it sounds like she needs a doctor.

it is very hard to speak of sexual abuse even to someone you trust it is best to calmly bring up to your girlfriend that maybe talking to a Therapist or a Counselor can help her it will be best if you can get her to agree to do so with out making her feel as though she is being forced to talk about what happened after all sexual abuse is not easy to talk about no matter how much time has passed a few days a few weeks a few months or years it still can be painful to talk about what happened which is the case with all forms of abuse that happen but sometimes sexual abuse is the hards to talk about
you should also let her know your will be there for her no matter what if she ever wants to talk about what happened that you will listen to her and just help her the best you can to heal from what has happened to her