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hi erm i haven't used this but my main has she has issues with me and it kinda sucks that she thinks i'm out to get her which im not i just have to protect my girl she has been hurt to much and the damage is quite servere. so anyway we have deleoped a new 'alter' as i am told we get called ( i am my own person might i just add) and she is over bearing and hyper she says she is 5 and her name is alicia now paula has been ignoring it and i have to deal with it but i need her to accept the child because really she is annoying me and i don't do attention or emotions with others accept paula. how can i get her to accept her when she has only just accepted me i mean i have to be in charge because paula is an emotional wreck at the moment because she lets the people who say 'they love her' walk all over her and treat her like dirt so how do i just drop in our conversations that we have a new friend? any advice would be appreciated and i no i am in soo much trouble for this since i normally just be horrible to people but they deserved everything they got off me hurting my girl hurts me and we are one. and yes i no i need to accept the child i'm sorting of just been us for soo long and now she decides she wants to play and that annoys me too.
M

Is your host not taking front currently? Be nice to the new alter she's only 5 you'll still have to care for her when you do introduce her to your main. As for hyperactive alters sometimes they need to come out. I don't have any experience with littles, but I think you should only let her out when your alone or with someone who knows about you. If your host won't take front for any period of time( when they are really scared and not just when they make you deal with their problems because they don't want to) she is in no condition for any surprises. You'll have to tell her eventually. You should just be up front with the news when you feel that Paula is ready.

Jef

no she's under alot and just couldn't cope with it all it happen sometimes but not as bad as this, i mean normally i'l come out for a few hours each day and that gives her the break from it all but this time its different and that is something i will be talking to her about. As for the little one i talk her lastnight and tried to explain that our main is sad at moment but as soon as she is back she can meet her, i let her out lastnight as our main has two small children and once i put them to bed and made sure they were both asleep for the night i let her come out and she explored the home and surroundings and played with the colouring books so she seems ok and is understanding the rules paula set. As for introducing her to anyone yet i mention it to paula's close friend as she is the only one that excepts us as our own individuals the rest tell our main we are not real and that its just her part of her own personality when we all different and we all act and think differently and each have our own bad habits so we are just as real as our main. i guess i am going have to bring the little one slowly to her attention and not just drop it in there.
Maria

Well it sounds like your getting along. Hopefully Paula will feel better soon.