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I don't know where they've gone

Postby neveralone » Thu Jun 03, 2010 10:00 am

I'm in a little country town to do my practical placement and I'm alone. Really alone. My alters haven't come out and they're not speaking in my head and I went into my system house and it was empty. Where did they all go? I don't want to be alone! I'm really scared.
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby TwilightInsight » Thu Jun 03, 2010 3:09 pm

Usually when this happens they're hiding out somewhere. For us, it's usually due to extreme stress. Just take some deep breaths and try to relax. Relaxing will help the situation a whole lot.

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My soul, like some heat-maddened summer fly,
Keeps buzzing at the sill. Which I is I?"
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby Mr. Bates » Thu Jun 03, 2010 5:51 pm

Exactly. Take it easy, focus on your school stuff, they'll come around when they're ready.
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby canolime » Thu Jun 03, 2010 8:41 pm

I know, it's no fun when it's quiet :? :( They will come back, though. Like they already said - try to relax. Maybe you're stressed, or maybe they're a little scared of the new situation. Try not to worry :)
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby neveralone » Fri Jun 04, 2010 12:35 pm

I don't know where the others are right now but James came back! :) Just in time for my first shift at the hospital. Aside from wiping old people's arses and fainting front of everyone, it was pretty cool.
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby canolime » Fri Jun 04, 2010 12:38 pm

That's great! :D

Um... fainting? :o
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby neveralone » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:37 pm

I was tired and I hadn't eaten properly and I dropped dead faint in front of half the hospital. As if that wasn't bad enough, they then took me to the emergency department in a wheelchair and subjected my to full obs including blood sugar test (my finger still hurts) a full blood work up and an ECG. For those who don't know, when you have an ECG you don't get to wear a shirt or even a bra. It would have been an even better day had I not fainted.
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby canolime » Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:49 pm

neveralone wrote:I was tired and I hadn't eaten properly and I dropped dead faint in front of half the hospital. As if that wasn't bad enough, they then took me to the emergency department in a wheelchair and subjected my to full obs including blood sugar test (my finger still hurts) a full blood work up and an ECG. For those who don't know, when you have an ECG you don't get to wear a shirt or even a bra. It would have been an even better day had I not fainted.


Oh, no :( Wow, that's just great :? They really had to run that many tests? Wait... but you had like a hospital gown on, or something, right?
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby broken_mirror » Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:09 pm

They're probably assessing the new situation. They're not gone,
they'll come back. They always do. :)

Also, sucks that you had to have so many tests.
Be sure to take care of yourself! It's very important to eat properly!

Take care :)
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Re: I don't know where they've gone

Postby neveralone » Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:14 pm

canolime wrote:[
Oh, no :( Wow, that's just great :? They really had to run that many tests? Wait... but you had like a hospital gown on, or something, right?


I wish. I was totally topless. Hospital staff got a free show of the twins.
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