alter acting up *trigger*

ok so my alter Vitya is the more thoughtful, aggressive, angry one and when shes up front she normally stays away from people dosent talk to anybody and gets the work done. My one friend helps me with everything ive told him about my DID and we have a really strong friendship because we can tell eachother anything and we both try to help the other.

When my other alter Rozalina told him that when i was still in the orphanage in Russia my caretaker was the only one who wouldnt abuse me sexually verbaly or physically until she found out thati was going to be adopted then the person started physically abusing me in very violent waves, Vitya suddenly became bitter towards him and wouldnt go upfront when i needed her to when he was around in school or was talking to him at school. In school one day we started talking about physical abuse and i really needed her infront, she went, and after the class she went up to him and said, " get the @#%$ out of my life, i hate you and want you dead more than anything else ive ever wanted!!"

Vitya split from me when i watched my brother die trying to save me and my twin from being molested, the abuser had a knife hidden when he jumped on him and they faught for a few seconds and then the abuser started stabbing and slashimg at his throat and that was the end of Nikita...... :'( We've also witnessed my twin dying and my younder brother being sent away from our orphanage to a completely worse one.

im not sure if that may have anything to do with how shes been acting lately but im worried shes going to hurt my friend eventyally im not sure what to do (im only 14)

Straighten her out! Don't tolerate an alter's bad behavior! And don't be afraid to tell her to knock it off with the #######4! That what she is doing is COMPLETELY unacceptable!