Hi ..New and Struggling

Ooooh yeah. It tends to frighten and confuse the male children more so than the older male teenager we have and the two grown men. (Though there was a time-of-the-month incident with one of the men and I think he may just be traumatized for life now. ) The best thing one can do is simply explain that "We're grown up now, and this body we live in is a girl body and we dress it as a girl body."

It gets real interesting when the kids get confused and you look at your bedroom floor one morning to find a size 6X tshirt on the floor with freaking Hannah Montanna on it!

-Leigh

Thanks Leigh for understanding

The last few days have just been really tough ,yesterday I had some very scary times (not that I can remember much) ,will try and explain as best I can.Things are still really difficult with my therapist ,this is resulting in all of us feeling upset,stressed,hurt etc .
one of 'my others' (who I mentioned before ) hates my therapist anyway and now because of the way the therapist is being (basically ingoring them all ) she is not coping,she is really hating me and blaming me (as well as the rest of 'the others') ,Ive ended up in unsafe situations when she has come out and threatened me and hurt me ,Ive tried explaining things to her ,im not sure of the best approach .Im actually really scared of her (how pathetic do I sound ).My husband encountered her briefly yesterday as he had to come home from work to help me .She hates my husband too .

Apologies for rambling on ,am just exhausted and feeling quite scared .

Cloudgirl