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Postby Escape Artist » Sat Mar 07, 2009 9:43 pm

gots a "new" little one...okay, well he's not new but this is the first time I've "met" him...er...yeah.

So, his name is Kanoa and he's about 5 1/2-6 yrs old. The average kindergarten boy who loves trucks, cars, dirt, coloring, and all of that. Unfortunately I don't have any money to be able to buy him trucks and stuff, if I could I would have but I dont have any monies...just like everyone else.

*Yes, I have been trying to get a job.

So yeah.

Oh, and Kanoa doesn't talk, he can hear and write but doesn't speak. I don't know why yet...he hasn't told me. But he has spoken to Bates...many of my alters have. So..chyea.
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Postby Mr. Bates » Sat Mar 07, 2009 11:21 pm

:D Everyone here's littles just LOVE me!

Yeah Kanoa's a great kid. If I lived by you, I would definitely buy him some trucks, and spoil the girls too XD

XD God help me when I have a child (praying for a daughter), I won't have any money cuz I'm gonna wanna buy her everything.

Oh, and Kanoa CAN talk, he's just way too scared to talk cuz of your bitch mom. Yeah, I really wanna take a bat to her.
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Postby lalalark2 » Sun Mar 08, 2009 9:03 am

I had a new little one come out too, that wont talk to me, I will write it in a different post.

I found the best way to "spoil" the kids is to do it gradually, you could always try to save a few quarters and buys him some hot wheels. We bought hot wheels for robbie.

AND YOU CAN play the coloring games on crayola thats coloring for free!nad thats way away better.

Hi Kanoa! I hope this stuff helps. Also you can go to the dirt in the sand box, or the beach or the garden and you can use a cup to dig in the dirt.
okay bye have a nice day and night.
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Postby TwilightInsight » Sun Mar 08, 2009 4:36 pm

Aww. Bless his heart.

We have a 6-year-old who is mute as well. His name is Qwentin. He can't talk (or is afraid to) but uses sign language, and is surprisingly brazen. He's not scared of people, he just can't talk but he says he wants to be able to one day. :)

If we lived closer my kids would let Kanoa share their toys. Since we don't, there are tons of online games that are free and for kids. Just google it. :D

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Postby Escape Artist » Mon Mar 09, 2009 6:51 pm

thanks everyone for your replies.

if you have any suggestiosn for good sites, lemme know.

haha. yeah bates, you're famous...to a crazy person. :P

and of the munchkins say hi
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Postby lalalark2 » Tue Mar 10, 2009 12:53 am

disney.com

crayola.com

those are mostly the best. there are loads of others too. like...

nick.com and

nickjr.com

I will tell you more whenn i think of it!

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Postby Dimensional » Wed Mar 11, 2009 3:29 pm

Yeah there are lots of sites with fun games and things to color on the internet. And maybe Kanoa can make an account at neopets.com , that's really fun for kids too, to care for your own pets and do special things with them there.

We have a boy who does hear you and understand things but who doesn't speak too, he's nine and he does draw a lot to make himself clear.. I've never "met" him and he doesn't play an active role in the outside world but I know of his presence.. I haven't known about him for long, I became aware of a 9-year-old girl I didn't know yet about two months ago and with being aware of her came being aware of 3 other alters in the same territory too. It's jungle-territory, which is one of the unexplored territories in our inside world by myself and the others I know of.. No-one in our system has laid contact with them so it's just new knowledge for now..
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Re: "new" lil one.

Postby Lame Crusader » Wed Mar 10, 2010 5:03 pm

Hi Kanoa! I'm Rae. Nice to meet you. C:

I totally just had the same thing happen to me a few weeks ago!! :shock:

I have a 5 year old who's been here foreverrr, but only recently made an appearance. Her name is Emily.

My advice to you is if you have some crayons, markers, colored pencils, whatever and some paper just lying around - give it to the kid. Also, as was already suggested, there are things online. Emily loves disney and nickjr. The neopets sounds like fun too - I'll have to remember that one for myself. c:

Do you let him play outside? Emily doesn't like dirt much, so I don't know about that bit, but I know that if you just let him run around for a while, he'll tire himself out and 'BAM' nap time for the little one. And if you have friends that know you have DID, maybe they would want to play with Kanoa and help you find things you can do. Disney movies are a hit too. And ice cream. Perhaps a nice board game from time to time and if you have video games that aren't extremely violent, you could let him play around with that too.

Good luck! I know it can be tough, but just remember that he needs everything a normal 5 year old needs.
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Re: "new" lil one.

Postby TwilightInsight » Wed Mar 10, 2010 7:23 pm

Escape Artist wrote:Oh, and Kanoa doesn't talk, he can hear and write but doesn't speak. I don't know why yet...he hasn't told me.


Our little guy Qwentin is the same. He uses sign language to communicate but can hear and read and type just fine. He wants to learn to talk but for some reason can't. :?

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Keeps buzzing at the sill. Which I is I?"
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