Sorry...

I wanted to apologzie. I'm really sorry. Please don't be mad at me. I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to upset you Pam, but my littles don't trust grown ups, especially moms 'cause my mom hurt us real bad. I'm really sorry.

No apology needed. I admit, I may have been a little overly sensitive, due to other stuff going on in my life. No need to apologize for the way you feel. They are your feelings and that's something you can't control. I'm the one that needs to apologize for upsetting them! This is a place for you to come and feel safe and I'm sorry for making them feel unsafe.

I do understand about the mother thing. My son's birthmother should have never been granted the priviledge to have children. As far as Matt is concerned, I am now his mother. It's taken 4 years for me to be promoted. And that's been 4 years of fighting the system for custody, fighting his mother, when she got out of prison, lost, she got him back, she messed up, again, went back to prison (been in and out of jail since he was 2), he went back into state custody until I got him back.

I'm sorry that your system saw it as me coming on too strong, but I've been involved with DID for over 10 years now and maybe I'm just a little too comfortable with invading their spaces.

Just wanted to let you know, no apology needed. I DO understand. Just the thought of me upsetting a Little was very upsetting to me, but you cannot help the way that they or you feel, so you have every right to express your feelings, that's what the forum is here for.

Sincerely,
Pam

Thank you.

You're Welcome