struggling**dont know if it trigs*sorry.

Red, we are here for you! Ecven if we can't do much and even if we sometimes forget to go online and keep up to date.
i wouldnt say im a star role model on this but alter communication is keey

not letting parts of you have freedom can lead to a long switch in my experience, and usually a strong switch which makes for the biggest loss of time so make usre you can vent excess feelings from every aprt of you in safe ways, just find what works for you.

i'm a bit new-agey in that department, i tend to stick around the incense and crystal stuffs hehe,
and then on the other hand there's blasting angry music, which vents incredibly well

Good luck, u're welcome here

Mr. Bates wrote::D Problem solved. Pointed you in the right direction, and you found the answer yourself.

Remember Red, a multiple is a multiple. You could be the admin of the whole site, and we'd still help you.

Mr Bates your right. All the understanding came as I tried to wrap my mind around me. why rational thinking some times went out the window and i could not act upon what we know.

Harri you are right too. I had a very emotional july and august.
I lost 3 weeks. And when we shifted , I felt free, I had not been in front then, yet we still managed to function. But me I felt I had been in a locked box. I had not been here. Another me was. so switchs are little and can happen in mid conversation, but other times I get very very sick to my tummy.

Losing a big block of time like that scared the heck out of me. I like to be incontrol of my gang. My therapist knew before I did.
But I found it on my own, and the understanding how one person can be a "multiple", All of me are survivors, of horror I dont need to know, the things that we remember are very bad.

I dont want it to dominate my life, I just have to understand how "we" operate, and I naturally, intuitively(the word my therapist used) accept it and it makes sense, and I have never been so happy in my life.

sorry to blab for so long.
(((((((((((((((((((((((DID Friends)))))))))))))))))))))))))
xoxo red

XD DID-BFF!

Blab away, Red. How else are you gonna get rid of all that chatter inside?

But seriously, I'm glad those of us here could be of some help and moderator or not, you're also just a person, like any of us. I mod two different multiple forums on other sites and I used to be very shy to make my own threads, but I'm not anymore. I realized quickly that I wasn't looked at like I should have it all together just because I helped keep things in line from time to time. Even we need support, ideas, or just a shoulder sometimes.

And a big "hi" to Missy. There's lots of kids here too. I hope you had fun playing.

-Leigh

Mr. Bates wrote:XD DID-BFF!

what does that mean??

r

Well "XD" is a nerdy emoticon recognized by anime geeks. You should know what DID is by now. BFF = Best Friends Forever.

TwilightInsight wrote:Blab away, Red. How else are you gonna get rid of all that chatter inside?

But seriously, I'm glad those of us here could be of some help and moderator or not, you're also just a person, like any of us. I mod two different multiple forums on other sites and I used to be very shy to make my own threads, but I'm not anymore. I realized quickly that I wasn't looked at like I should have it all together just because I helped keep things in line from time to time. Even we need support, ideas, or just a shoulder sometimes.

And a big "hi" to Missy. There's lots of kids here too. I hope you had fun playing.

-Leigh

Hello from Missy, she is quite content now that we played and watched cartoons together. All of my kids took turns on the scooter. (I bet we have more toys than I did as a kid)

We dont want to confront each other, we love each other, and I would not trade that for anything.
everyone here has been so kind to us.
Thank you, I dont feel I have to "be care ful with me, we, us and I. LOL.
Red

Mr. Bates wrote:Well "XD" is a nerdy emoticon recognized by anime geeks. You should know what DID is by now. BFF = Best Friends Forever.

We love japanese anime!! we are not the nerds, I dont know any nerds. LOL but BFF I love to. lol

so XD DID BFF to you too. You ought to see the looks we get when we start pestering the clerk at Blockbuster for new anime.
LOL hehehehe I bet we have asked for so many different genres that the clerks think I am a whopper walnut!!!
Red

Ah, you mean "MPD", Multiple Personality Disorder. I liked that name better. Back in the day!

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I'm not an alcohlic, alcoholics go to meetings! XD Sorry, sorry, just had to.

Mr. Bates wrote:I'm not an alcohlic, alcoholics go to meetings! XD Sorry, sorry, just had to.

I'm an enthusiast.

-Marsha