Only alter fighting for control warning trigger

My alter has caused a lot of trouble. She has gone over my abuse, when she first came here. But, she told police that it was neighbors who raped me. And she tried to get money from them. But I was blacked out by her.

Now she has calmed down but says she is killing me slowly, wants my money. Gets mad if I work around the house and use some energy. As well as gets me mad cause for the fun of it. She basically, is saying the opposite of what she wants yet gets off on the torture.

She does laugh at jokes I make of ourselves. But how can I calm her down to sleep as she's so hyper active. Thank you for listening.

This sounds like a maladapted protector behavior, or ""persecutor"" behavior.

Here is a link towards articles in french about the subject and how to manage, with the automatic translation to english so you can read them. Hope it helps. https://troublesdissociatifs-wordpress- ... r_pto=wapp

With us, Hyde and Jayce used to struggle for control, before we learned cooperation. In their case, it was because of unaddressed needs. Gone too long unaddressed and unacknowledged, they drove them to desperate behavior. Does your alter have some deep, unmet need that is producing such desperate behavior?

I as Beverly, want to say I need panther to understand I need stimulation outside. But we can't go anywhere due to no car, extra money. And disability. But I need to say I'm an angry alter that wants total control of everything for me to get richer.

I admit I'm destructive and I need help but I need to listen. Cause it's possible panther might go the route of going to Oregon. Where it's legally available for one thing. Other states don't provide. I'm not scared. But want to say I need to listen. And you know how much an alter feels about change. At least I can't handle change at all.

I as Beverly admit I'm psychopathic. And say I want panther to die cause I should be here. I want all her things to be a whore like her mother wanted.

Beverly

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Just go there and start reading.

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She's keeping on with the fighting. Arguing my life she deserves. I'm going to try some stronger meds. But she says she'll put up a fit. Last time I got new altérs and it didn't go well. But I'll see if their are any alternatives.

What kind of help or advice do you expect to get? What do you need from this board?

Just looking for someone elses advice they may have delt with. Cause my alter can't accept that we don't get out much due to being on disability. As well as other expenses.

I don't know how much advice I can give to you. Our only alter who behaved anywhere near what is going on with you and your alter is locked away and can't hurt anyone else. Everyone else understands the limits we have with regards to what we can do outside the house, and truthfully, most of the other alters don't like leaving the house much either. For the most part, that's lead the majority of our alters to stay inside.

The only thing that I can think of that's comparable is what we went through with Lilith, and we had to discuss things with her and find out why she was acting out the way she was. Once we started understanding what was causing her problems, we were able to get her to calm down on some of her behaviors. Even at that, we still have days where Lilith acts out.

That is about all I can think of. Finding out why Beverly acts the way she does.

I do hope things get figured out,
Violette